My wife works for a large company and she is the only woman in her department. Her friends are mostly men... Lately she seems to have become very protective of one of them and I do not like it at all. I am convinced he is just waiting for the chance to get in her pants. I happen to know one guy my wife works with and have befriended him so that, without letting him in on my secret thoughts, am using him knowing that he would spill it out if something went on between my wife and this other guy. Eventually this guy's name did come up during conversation and I then asked my friend to invite this guy to come along for a drink. Neither of them know who I am married to. We went out the three of us and there he started spilling his guts about how he had a crush on this hot woman at his workplace, and how he intends to bone her. He even went as far as saying, among other things, that by the look of things, she has the hots for him and is asking for it. I am now unsure how to tackle this.
2007-03-20 01:32:55 · 3 answers · asked by Rick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Best to be honest and upfront with your wife. Tell her what is going on and that you are worried about her. I'm not sure I would tell her how you found out but that;s between the 2 of you. I wouldn't put too much weight in what the guy said about your wife. You know how guys talk so of course he was going to say she's hot for him, too. Talk this over and don't be accusatory. I would approach it as being concerned for her safety and well being around this jerk in her office. I hope you get this worked out and all will be better.
2007-03-20 01:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy told you he wants to bone your wife, so instead of saying "convinced," I would say "He told me he wants to bone my wife." I would ask her if she likes the guy that way, and after I get this negative answer I would employ a private detective, catch them in the act, and WHAMMO, she's out.
2007-03-20 08:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something about it now - before it is too late. Confront your wife with what you know and ask her to please leave her job, or move to another department. It is not healthy for her to be there if she values her marriage.
2007-03-20 08:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by celianne 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋