When i was in class 5 a girl took admission in to our class.And when i have come to class 8 after seeing her i am unable to forget her.If i see her i feel like something happy in my heart.All my friends say that i am LOVE with her.If thie is true can any body help me in proposing her.And the main thing is that my father and her father are friends.Solve my problem so that it does not hurt the friendship of mine and her father and even she should not get bad openion on me.
2007-03-20 00:56:31 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How about you start with talking to her? Ask her to a movie or something. Go as friends, see what blossoms from there.
2007-03-20 01:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by hope 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude ... this is tricky. Do you know how she feels about you/reacts to you. I assume that is also positive. In that case, talk to her abt how good you feel being around her. See her reaction. If she gets offended - back off and shut up. If she reciprocates, try to drop in to see her or ask her out for a nice dinner. Make sure that both of u have a good time. Don't be in a hurry to say "I love you" - it could ruin everything. After a while of hanging out with her if she is cool with you and you still feel the same way, then say "I love you". Tell her there is no pressure and that she does not have to love you just 'cos you love her and that though you would be heartbroken you will not make her feel awkward or put any kind of pressure on her. If she says "I love you too" - great !!!! Otherwise either get over her or stay friends and give it some time - for her to understand you better (if she needs to). I went steady with a girl since class 10 for 6 yrs. Then married her. We are now married for 16 yrs. and have been going steady now for 22 yrs.
Never put pressure. Let them feel comfortable. That way even if she says "no" the realtionship between the parents can still continue unaffected. Cheers buddy. All the best !!!!
2007-03-20 01:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all try to b friendly wid her ,u r having advantage also as her n ur father is friends so any excuse will do.After u been friends 4 long u can understand her better and it will b easy 4 u 2 propose widout hurting ur papas friendship.
Best of luck.
2007-03-20 03:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you go on studying your class lessons... you will know more and more Life's lessons. So don't be in a hurry...
Hurry spoils the curry... and you will invite worry... so be good normal class mates.. friends.. discuss lessons.. pass in distiction and your present love will gradually become a bud then a flower ... If the understanding between your two families is good... your love will be yours.. but remember when you step out of college... don't forget to inform your parents what is in your heart... then after getting a decent employment... go on dear... your dreams will come true..
2007-03-20 13:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by vasudev s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for 4 more years as u r too young to talk of love or propose for marriage. Concentrate fully on studies till u achieve flying colours otherwise u may fail in exams b coz of her & then she will not like u at all. Minors should not love so soon. Loving someone may be easy but carrying it up for 50 - 60 years of life may be difficult. Pray God for success in all your goals.
2007-03-20 01:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14 years and she is studying in 5th class in that age love not becomes. don't propose to her. Yours studies will disturbed in that age not love that is attraction only. and if u talk freely to her like a friend. So you got a good friend. You make friendship only. Yours fathers friendship also distrubed because of u dont forgot it.
2007-03-23 00:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u shouldn’t try anything like that now. U know many people hav ruined their lives by infatuations at young ages. U may b her friend but don’t go 4 anything else now. The decision u make today will affect ur tomorrow.
2007-03-20 18:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by Reni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am also 14 .what u think is love is just a attraction .don't propose her because u could be in trouble.just keep a friendship with her. r u sure that she also likes u? just keep a good friendship with her & then when u gradually grow up
then think about this proposals and all.
keep smiling!
have a nice day.
2007-03-20 01:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by ms.gomez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't propose just now, but u can be her friend, just like her father and your father are friends. U can meet, go to movies, go on a date and just enjoy yourselves, and let the future take care of the future, the present is all that matters.
2007-03-20 23:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a time to propose let you both be a good friends and you propose your love after some years!!
2007-03-20 01:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by JAVID J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this is something that is very critical, at the same time its to be resolved soon as it is related to your sentiments. Don't worry much about it. Just try to be her fren first, try to spend some time with her, talk to her, go out for movie or sth like that, so that you may understand wht she feels abt you, or she may also develop the same feel as you have for her. Once you are clear about her feelings regarding this relationship or frenship, you may always go ahead to propose her.
2007-03-20 01:45:58 · answer #11 · answered by minaxi g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋