2007-03-20 00:56:15 · 12 answers · asked by leena 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
"sorry"
its "stake" not stack!!!
i was in hurry!!
2007-03-20 02:50:19 · update #1
After I got married I learnt what the freedom is. I'm talking about the freedom to love as much as you want without worrying what you gonna get back.
The freedom to express yourself without worrying that the person won't understand you.
The freedom to dream, knowing you'll get the best support and encouragement to fulfill your dreams.
The freedom to travel and see every part of the world I ever wanted to see.
If you feel like you're giving up your freedom, don't get married... you haven't met the right person.
2007-03-20 01:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by baby2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get up in the morning, you know you're loved, needed, wanted, and cherished. Your physical desires and emotional needs connects you to another human being that is completely indescribable. People think once you're married it's all over. On the contrary you feel more confidence and take more chances because you know that you're not fighting the world alone. If it's b/c you can't have sex w/ more than one person then I say you're getting in the wrong game. When your husband/wife are in the same playing field - same goals, same aspirations,etc...the minor squabbles of who left the dishes in the sink will disappear after weighing the benefits of matrimony. Look at Elizabeth Taylor...married EIGHT times. After three wouldn't you give up? Either she's a glutton for punishment or she REALLY likes being married. Or Hugh Hefner...has all these beautiful women and he still wants to get married? All hetero men are going WHY? All in all I think for all the bad things that happen and for all your spouses little quirks, I think that like everything, marriage has its good side, too. People are still getting married (have you seen how many wedding mags there are in the bookstore? Insane) and life happens...
2007-03-20 01:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by VoxPopuli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married a couple of years ago. Marriage is hard work (as is any relationship) but the fact that you have 'committed' to one another means you are SUPPOSED to both work hard at making it work.
As far as no longer having you freedom, if you chose a partner you love and can grown with you don't. Only the freedom of sleeping around- which can be overrated anyway- let's face it- we all want someone who knows and loves you.
Still, I am not an idealist and I think temptation will come our way but truly loving someone means not hurting them- so you try and give up the selfish urges.
So marriage is not the 'ball and chain' it is a sacrifice for a great reward.
Saying all of that...it depends on your principles- a lot of people marry so they can have a party and divorce a year later and many others live together happily with children for 20+ years unmarried. To each their own.
2007-03-20 02:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
freedom or life are at the stack?
I'm going to take two wild guesses here.
First guess: English is not your primary language. Either that, or your spelling is atrocious. Possibly both.
Second Guess: You meant to say "at stake."
I bet you have not yet experienced a type of love that one feels that compels one to want to get married. When one experiences that kind of love (is it a "groovy kind of love?" Ask Phil Collins), one does not feel like one is sacrificing their freedom OR their life. Rather, they're expanding their freedoms to include another, and they're enhancing their life by adding another person to it.
Your question indicates that you have yet to experience this. I wish for you, my friend, this happiness that I've found. (I'll shout it from the mountaintop....) Good luck.
2007-03-20 01:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What? I got married because I love my wife and dont want to be with anyone else. But being married really hasnt affected my freedom of life other than the fact that I now have someone to share the burden as well as the boon.
2007-03-20 00:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many (maybe most) people think getting married and having their own lovely families are more rewarding in their lives than what you call a "freedom."
But if you have an ambition to accomplish something extra-ordinary in your life (whatever that is), you had better stay single, which enables you to spend all your time and money for nobody else but yourself.
Maybe you are a person who cannot satisfy yourself with those "ordinary happiness" that you see all around you.
I can understand it.
2007-03-20 08:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by area52 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We get married for love, companionship, friendship. Freedom is a choice. Many people are still caged in, even when they are not married. We choose to be free together.
2007-03-20 01:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some people have moral values and don't sleep with anything that breathes... .
some people love each other very much and act like people are supposed to...
some people actually believe that there is a difference between people and animals, actually even some animals choose a mate for life (geese)
not everyone is as crazy as some people seem to be.
2007-03-20 01:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by J-Rod on the Radio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people don't think realistically they only think about the present future.
2007-03-20 01:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by Polynomial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mistakes are human tendency.
2007-03-20 00:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋