Some say sex, some say food..
My partners been a bit down lately, and I want to do something really nice to cheer him up when I next see him. I've done the above, but would like to do something more original that makes him think "wow! I'm really special"
I'm stuck.. any ideas?
2007-03-20 00:30:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Some nice suggestions so far. We've been together for a while now, and know each other inside out. We both realise we have something special, and make a point about telling each other how happy we are.
it's just his work's getting him down. I'm not seeing him until saturday and keeping contact to a minimum til then, just to give him some space.
Thanks for the advice peeps :)
2007-03-20 02:49:30 · update #1
Take him to dinner. Book a nice hotel suite, decorate it with roses and candles and make the night memorable. That way you cover the sex and food portions. If that doesn't work just give him some breathing room, he'll come around.
2007-03-20 00:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by imagine_tha_possibilities 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Have you tried sex in a public place or somewhere out of the ordinary. Spontaneity is the spice that makes a man's mouth water. Buy him a nice gift and then after giving it to him go down on him right there. Ruts are easy to fall into as a couple, but spontaneous attraction puts the fire back into it.
2007-03-20 08:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by Adam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to a guys heart is not a simple process. First you need to get to really know him. show interest in what he does and how he does it. Find out what he likes the most and ask him about it. Guys like their ego stroked. do not rush him or try to get him to commit as it will push him away. Be willing to compromise with him, but at the same time remain aloof so he will show interest in you. Never offer your self up for immediate sex. It will definitely be a turn off, although for the moment he will be absolutely gaga over you.
Show interest but not openly blatant, be shy and coy. Remain a mystery if you can, make him want to get to know you.
His heart will follow when he shows an interest in you. Remain amicable in all situations but also be firm in who you are and what you want. Whisper those sweet nothings in his ear. Show him you care, don't abuse him or treat him like property and never let him treat you as property.
2007-03-20 07:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by CheryllDianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that you could do for him, is to do something with him that HE likes, and knows that you would rather not do. Or maybe get him a special little gift that you know that he wants, but has never mentioned. Both of these will help him to realize that you care for him and pay attention to him when he isnt looking. My wife and I had the same problem for a while, but she never could figure it out, and would TRY to get me special little gifts, but they all turned out to be things that I would rather NOT have. Trust me, it makes a huge difference to know that other people are paying attention to you.
2007-03-20 07:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to a guy's heart is amazingly simple.Just show him that you are not so dependent on him i.e show him that you 've got your own life and to some extent you can do without him.Never act needy or jealous around him and show him that he is not so completely in control of your life.Men quickly lose interest in gals who are all over them.However, show him respect and tender love.He will always see you as a challenge and somebody to kill for.I wish you success.
2007-03-20 07:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by niko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something really random that he wouldnt expect you to do like take him out for the day to do some of the things he enjoys best.. e.g go karting, fishing etc you should know what he like and to surprise him instead of watching him join him and give him a little competition..
wel that was only a suggestion so good luck cheering him up
2007-03-20 07:43:56 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy_German 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you know his interests, how about getting him tickets for something he'd like to see - a game, a concert, or something along those lines? You might consider doing this so that he can take a buddy along, and give him a "guy's night out" - men need their space from time to time, and it might be good for you to have a girl's night out too :-)
2007-03-20 07:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to a man's heart is right through the center. Hit his heart with a clear clean shot. You know him well enough to focus on his strengths and best characteristics. You know what his strong points are and you know what you like and love about him. TELL HIM!!! And tell him every single time you get close enough to make him know you mean it too!!! I believe that people know the truth when they hear it or they reject it as useless flattery. Tell your man what he is like and what it is about him that you love. Straight through to the heart!! Good Luck!! He deserves to Know that YOU KNOW!!! and Make It True!! @8-)
2007-03-20 07:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depend,what you want to do,but if you relay care and you want a long relation ship why this guy,be very careful how you treat him and listent to hym at the begining, the first impresinon,count;
2007-03-20 07:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by bruneta77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know him better - that is what he likes and loves. Do something for him that you know he'd love and appreciate - maybe a hilarious movie...the works
2007-03-20 07:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by divagal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋