We are in love but we cannot be together, will it pass? Anybody experiencing the same?

Question

We are friends since 12 years ago. We fell in love last year but I am involved with someone we both know and love. He is single. We do not want to act on it so we go on with our lifes but the three of us are good friends so we see each other regularly. Will these feelings ever pass? Anybody has had a similar experience?

Answer 1

well, sometimes, u just gotta take the risk, it could work or not, but at least u'll know

Answer 2

If there is no flirtation and it is never discussed again then it has a very good chance of passing.But if there is the tiniest feeling that you don't want him to stop caring then they surely won't pass. This is where you have to be 100% sure of what you want.It won't be wise to act like nothing is going on if you do have feelings because eventually it will come to light.Also you can't give the other someone 100% so it isn't fair to him much less will it work out for the good of anyone involved.

Answer 3

The feelings will pass once YOU move on. He is NOT available, and the more you hang with hum, the more you will be frustrated and stimulated.

In time, when you find another love and if it works, you will chose to recall how fond you were of this love you now feel, but you will NOT act on it. You will love the one you are with.

Answer 4

if you really love him, then how can you be with someone else? you're hurting your boyfriend more by staying with him when you don't feel the way you once did. maybe you should be single for awhile and try to figure out what you really want.

Answer 5

As does a satisfying bowel movement, all things pass.

Answer 6

yes and no