Last night when I came home from softball practice, I found my husband, mother and sister having a family meeting. The three of them had come to the conclusion that my husband should get my sister pregnant. My sister is 39 years old and has no man and is in desperate need to have a baby. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. My sister says that she loves how beautiful my kids are, and wants some of her very own that look just like mine. That is why she has determined that my husband should be the father. My mother and husband both agree that this would be in the best intrest of my sister. My husband even said that he would be willing to sleep with my sister for as long as it takes until she becomes pregnant. I was outraged. I don't want my husband sleeping with my sister and was totally against their idea. They called me mean and selfish and a heartless monster. Are they right? Should I really have to let my husband get my sister pregnant?
2007-03-20 00:09:12 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-03-20 07:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by g 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. You are right.
Your husband has no right whatsoever to 'sleep' with your sister and you shouldn't be pressured otherwise. If your husband is so willing, then that means that he's been wanting to do the horizontal mambo with her for some time.
Let's just say that he gets her pregnant 'in vitro', it will still be a problem. From then on your husband will now have a bond with your sister that can't be broken, since he'll be the father of her children.
This is something like you'll see on the Jerry Springer Show. Do you really want this?
Have your sister go to the sperm bank and get artificially inseminated. Less problems that way.
2007-03-20 00:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by Larry F 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you shouldn't let your husband get your sister pregnant. You have every right to feel outraged. I respect families for being open and honest with each other but there has to be a line that isn't crossed and I feel that in this case, the line has been well and truly crossed. Tell your sister to find her own man, tell your mother you feel betrayed and tell your husband that he better get used to his hand for a while. Even though you may feel hurt and betrayed at the moment, I'm sure things will work out for the best. I sincerely hope that they do. Best of luck.
Hello to the thumbs down giver who obviously loves their sister in that special way.
2007-03-20 00:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by Shantelle G 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
Please do not worry. I know this will not be acceptable to you or any woman on the earth. But "When there is a problem than there is a way."
Now the problem is that your sister wants the kids after getting pregnant from your husband .
The solution is that to get pregnant form your husband for kids only. It is not necessary that they should have sex , The pregnancy can be done by IVF or In Vitro Fertilization .
The IVF is a procedure where female egg is fertilized with male’s sperm outside the body under culture condition, which is almost similar to that of woman’s tube.
This is a technique to provide a child to your sister without making physical relations with your husband.
Feel free to contact
Enjoy Life
Dr.Mojo
2007-03-20 00:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO! Your in the right. Stand your ground, and make it stick. Let them think what they will.
They know as well as you do. that there are clinics, are have sperm banks. And if your sister should want a baby, then maybe, she should go there.
You may need to explain ,to you children, that their dad wants to have a baby with your aunt.
You best ask your husband, how would he explain, to your sisters child, that he is the father, and what it would do to the others. as well as himself.
Maybe your sister had a thing going with him, but kept it quiet. You best stand your ground, and let them know you mean what you say, or you are leaving him.
Maybe you ought to ask your husband, is it worth the heartache, of putting your children thru.
Your in the right. Maybe you should also ask your husband if you can have his brothers baby. if he has a brother, or better yet, his dads.
2007-03-20 08:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me put it this way. If I was in your position, I'd probably kick my husband out just for even thinking about doing that. And as for your mother and sister....they need a head check. Your sister is probably lustful, but your mother is crazy to even support the idea.
You're a sensible woman. You know all this will end up hurting YOU and YOUR children. Don't stand for any bull! Be mean and serlfish! You have every right to do so!!!
P.S. possibly there is more to this than they are telling you, like they are trying to cover up something.
2007-03-20 01:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa M. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask them if it's ok for you to sleep with the neighbor because they have cute kids and he would be willing to sleep with you to. Atleast that wouldn't be insest. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. Ofcourse then I would investigate their relation and make sure that they are not covering up an unexplainable pregnancy. Also the fact that it is family makes it more demented, your children would be brother or sister and cousins. How Jerry Springer! No matter what, at no point in a marriage should your husband voluntarily sleep with another women. As for selfish, how selfish of your sister to want your man and kids that look like yours. Get your own! Obviously she has issues and maybe that is why she is still single and without children. What kind of values would she teach her children. something like...'it's ok to sleep with your sisters husband as long as it is for personal gain and makes her miserable'.
2007-03-20 00:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Charissa L 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
WOW! Well judging from the other problems in your life (your baby sitter is breast feeding your baby, sister-in-law bathing your husband, your dad is your long lost mother, and you think your 3 yr old should bathe herself, etc...) this is small potatoes. Just let him sleep with her. Who's it going to hurt? It'll keep him occupied for a while sure, but you know it's you he really loves right? Then you can all go on the yearly family vacation to the Jerry Springer Show with a new bundle of joy to show off. ☼
2007-03-20 01:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes sure let them do it, you are open minded, aren't you ??
and don't think to let him give the sperms only, thats not your style, they need love to be the correct ones like yours .
I sure hope at that age she can get pregnant within 2 or 3 months not more because she is 39 now and might enjoy it after a while, and you don't want that to happen.
By the way my kids are so lovely, would you and your sister like to meet me sometime ? even bring your mother if she would like.
2007-03-20 05:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good lord! Sounds like an episode of Jerry Springer. No you should not allow your sister to have your husband's baby! If she wants to have a baby that bad, she needs to go to a sperm bank and find a donor that looks like your husband.
2007-03-20 01:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should not and tell your mother and sister and husband to go and see a psychiatrist that are crazy and the best int rest for your sister is to go and find her a husband on her self and lee your along and if your husband is willing to slaps with her as long for her to becomes pregnant than i would tell him to get out and stay out and you are not mean or selfish or heartless monster and they are not right you are OK
2007-03-20 00:32:09 · answer #11 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋