Is it just me or are married sexy men even sexier becasue they are married, because it gived you the thrill of knowing that its naughty? I find my boss who is baout 20 years older than me very attractive, hes married and his wife works at our work 2, ive seen him give me the eye a few times and often shares very long eye gazes with me. I really want to show him that im interested in him or be more flirty, but how? Ive had 2 affiars before and they have worked out fine. What should i do ?? Just stick to having fantises or turn them into reality? help me plz!!
2007-03-19 23:53:30 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should stick to fantasies. Why ruin someones life, along with their whole family?
2007-03-19 23:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Getting a hard time about this question...although i wouldn't want to be with someone who is married i guess it is a turn on if they are attracted to you but they can't have you...In your defence I'd just like to add that although your actions (if you take it further) are questionable, The married guy also knows the risk of having an affair..its not like your stomping in there and ripping apart any family. He knows the risks, he knows what he has and could loose so if he does decide to have an affair he is the one breaking his family up too! Although i strongly disagree with affairs, it always seems to be the one with a family who gets all the sympathy lavished on them , when they themselves knew what they were doing and risking whereas the person who is single or has no family (kids wife etc) that is to blame..the person with a family or wife could have simply not ventured into the affair in the first place
2007-03-22 08:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by Chill_Out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's "sexy" to play any part in breaking up a marriage...doesn't matter if the married person is a willing accomplice or not! What about their partner? What about their kids? Are you really so selfish as to not give a damn about anything but your lustful desires of the moment? Try and think about what you are doing. You think it's o.k. just because you think you can get away with it? How do you live with yourself? What is wrong with you that you seek out those with whom you cannot have any kind of meaningful connection? Don't you want anything more? Maybe you just don't know what you are missing. If you ask me, you're selling yourself short here. You are also potentially harming innocent lives. If that's something you're o.k. with, then by all means, continue what you're doing. But realize this: what you sow you will one day reap. What happens when a wife finds out about one of your affairs and comes after you? People have been known to get themselves killed in situations like these. Don't think it "can't happen" to you. That could be a big mistake.
2007-03-20 00:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would love to cuss you out right now but I'm not going to bother wasting my time using foul language... What I will say is, you sound like you probably used to be some geek back in the day and somehow are getting attention now which is clearly going to your head, and in this sick little head of yours,you feel you're getting one over the poor wives of these foolish men. Step back and look at how insecure you really are...the men are only going with you cos they can, not cos you're anything special honey. I ain't usually this harsh but being a married woman myself, I am trying real hard to remain a lady.Remember one thing though, Karma's a dangerous thing, be ready to have this **** done to you twice as hard.
2007-03-20 11:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a case of wanting something we cant have!! Well not completely have anyway!!So yes i no what you mean --- although its not very nice to have an affair with a married man i no that it is easy to get carried away and you cant always help who you fall for but in this case i would advise not starting any thing with your boss -- especially if you no his wife!!!Could you really live with the guilt of seeing her every day at work knowing what you have been doing with her husband???!!!Keep that 1 as a fantasy if i were you!! x
2007-03-20 00:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married men are sexier because they have a woman at home to have great sexual relations with, keeping them sexy. I pity people like yourself who are so insecure about themselves and life in general that you go after married men to try and get one up on the wives to make you feel good. Its sick.
You need to find yourself a good counselor and have some therapy.
Falling for a married man without intention can be forgiven, but knowingly going after a married man is immoral, and breaks up families. You seriously need to sort your life out, and stop ruining other peoples lives.
I found it very hard not to cuss u out.
2007-03-20 00:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
2affairs already?? what are u married or where they??
So u like the fantasy of being a mistress then....
Yess i agree that some sexy men become even sexier when they married, but in my books he is off-limits, &i consider the wife the lucky. I'd never want to be the cause of a broken home...
but clearly u have ur own point of views etc:soo
U can either flirt or tell him to stop giving attention where it doesnt belong....
which on are u gonna be: slutty mistress or honorable women??
2007-03-20 00:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes you do have a point, married men might be considered attractive because of the chase, single men are too easy, and because you know that there's no commitment coming and it does take two to tango, but just make sure his wife is more of a door mat than an axe murderer before you get involved, of course, he may just be happily married and in that case, it's unlikely that you'll be able to get him, but you could get fired!
EDIT: If you enjoy the chase, I suggest you find yourself a good Catholic man who took an abstinence pledge to corrupt and then do away with!
2007-03-19 23:59:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way things are going, you'll have to look hard to find a married man... I guess the fact that he's married means he's fairly happy and good with kids etc, and that can increase a man's attractiveness. But I'd say look for a good guy who's single, if you want him to be stable and happy also then marry him!
2007-03-20 00:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by CT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have serious issues. But I think all women are more attracted to the guy who is taken.
I don't believe in this home-wrecker nonsense. Cheaters cheat, if it isn't you it will be some other bimbo. If you and these married guys get off on the betrayal....whatever. That is what the woman who married a cheater gets for thinking she could change him.
2007-03-20 00:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why can't women like you go and get your own man and get married and stay faithfull. Do you know how easily men stray when it is offered on a plate? Do you not have any consideration for theit wives and children? They got married for a reason, and it wasn't to make cheating more fun. Sort yourself out, and leave him alon. If His wife knew what you were thinking she would probably shoot you.
2007-03-20 01:05:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋