I've been in this new school for three years now, and am able to interact with certain ppl at certain times. However, I've made some good friends, who even went out with me, but suddenly they've been acting really stupid and selfish, using me whenever a certain person wasn't there, and as soon as he/she was there, they'd literally ignore me. I had a talk, and they either said nothing was wrong, or I was just too sensitive, but I'm usually not. I saw this as the best way to move on, and try to make new friends, but it already took me two years to make friends with the previous group. I' m almost finished with school, and my parents are worried that if I still won't find friends in Uni, that something is wrong with me, which I will face. but, I just want to know, how do I make friends( I am confident and say "hi" , "how are you?", but mostly ppl will only give me short answers and not even start conversations with me...)
2007-03-19 23:14:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Like, real friends who want to hang out with me, and not make me kiss their butt...cause I did that usually, and have been used and battered and I'm sick of it. Not ppl, who are nice to me in school, and never want to hang out...
2007-03-19 23:17:46 · update #1
Why you don't stop asking things and start answering,like you say :"ppl will only give me short answers",they are third to give you something,just try to be yourself,don't act stupid but don't be aggressive....that's what ppl think!!!!! AND LOOK, YOU MAKE 1 FRIEND JUST NOW!!!!
2007-03-19 23:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by Dya - The white Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age my dear, it might be a blessing from God as He might want to protect you from all of the stupid things young people get themselves involved in today. Run that one by your parents if they still think that there is something wrong with you. Stupid people don't like associating with smarter ones and never did. It's like looking in a mirror and they don't always like what they see. Be yourself, be cool. When the right person comes along, you'll know it without a word. I suspect the very essence of you is "good". I suspect you have a good "spiritual side to you" that might scare the "crazies" away. When you do find a true friend, it will be for life.
2007-03-20 06:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by Teri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm thats a good question. I know a lot of people but only a few good friends. Its hard now days. too many back stabbers and users out there, its really sad. Maybe u shouldnt try so hard and let them come to u...like..."good things are worth waiting for" there is no rule how to meet good friends its a thing called being lucky ;)i dont think there is anything wrong with u
2007-03-20 06:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by blabla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to have a friend is to be one. I will leave it at that. If you concentrate on being a friend to someone and not think about yourself you will be well on to your way of having a friend.
2007-03-20 06:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. PDQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋