what do you think if your husband thinks that his parents and little sister is important to your baby than your parents and your siblings? I plan to take my 6 mon old daughter to visit my mom 6 hrs drive away. He told me"my parents gonna miss her". He bought this mobile home, paid off his dad's car, pay all 3 cars's insurance, take them to shopping, his 20 yr old little sis still ask for money from my husband. What bothered me is they still control him and what he wanna gets need to ask his parents first. They yell my husband in front of me and can you believe they asked me to claim my husband for medi-cal etc...Of course I know wat to do to help him. They always ask every single thing we do.
2007-03-19 23:05:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we live wit his family that's y I'm depressed, I miss my family a lot but i'm married and now wit a baby so I have to try my best fro her. I feel like i'm in a cage now.
2007-03-19 23:28:49 · update #1
Try to solve your problems by sorting out coolly with your husband, otherwise you will never be happy.
2007-03-23 06:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to really start to punish this man for robbing you of your sanity!!! You ahve to pull out all the stops and always glorify your family infront of him and his family to let them understand that you have arrogance as much or more than they do when it comes to family. Take mnoney from the account and put in a separate account... then tell him your sister, brother, cousin, etc. asked you some money. If he gets mad... then just tell him that you learnt this behaviour from him.
Stop allowing your parents in law access so often to your baby... and start taking the sex away from him... he will have to be taught the hard way... teach him to be a man if his mama didn't!
2007-03-20 06:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your parents see your baby. They live further away. Or, sometimes have a "family get together" with both sides invited to your place, for a picnic, or luncheon or dinner or something. Your husband needs to stand up to his parents, and especially his sister, not give out any more money, etc. Not give in to their whims, etc. The Bible says" For this cause, shall a man leave his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wife" "and the two shall become one flesh". It's one thing to respect your parents, it's another when you let them run your life once you are married. Cleave means to stick to-like glue. In other words, you and he are one, you are married to each other, yes, it's okay to visit family, but it is NOT okay to let his parents (or yours) try to run the marriage, or either one of you. I wish you the best. Take care.
2007-03-20 06:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You, your husband and baby need to get the hell outta dodge (so to speak) If you don't want your daughter to be screwed up I would suggest moving to another state... Get as far away from that family as you can, if you want to save your marriage and after you move get your husband into some sort of therapy FAST!!
Have you ever seen Deliverance! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
2007-03-20 06:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by CarynB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that your parents are more important than his? I am sory to tell you that your husband is not a man .He is still a boy who do everything that mom says.if his behaviour doesn't change you will suffer all your life.Be talf and teel your mother in law to leave you and your husband live your life.I've got nothing to loose.If he will not change and became a man you will break up adventually,AND A BABY WILL SUFFER!
2007-03-20 06:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jerdy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After reading all your posts. I think you should just leave your husband. He and his family can have visitation
2007-03-20 06:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading your question, I think that maybe a guest spot on the Jerry Springer show may help you.
2007-03-20 06:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by JayJay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd go on that trip and make plans to stay gone.
2007-03-20 07:03:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him.
2007-03-20 06:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by coffee37man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋