What was the situation..and what happened?
Did you fight, walk away...or behave like an adult..and not deal with that situation....and just let it drop?
2007-03-19 22:53:55 · 9 answers · asked by smilingflowergirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To the first answerer...I know exactly what you are saying ...that's terrible! I feel for you..regarding your best friend being with your boyfriend...(that happened to me,...and yes, it DOES hurt, alot)!!!! I know what U are sayin'!!
2007-03-19 23:08:52 · update #1
My fiancee of three years came home from a "family" visit and started to unpack his suitcase. After he left, I went in to the office to get on the computer and he had left out polaroids of his "other" girlfriend, a.k.a. my best friend, wearing the pajama top of his and my special pajamas we bought together for each other. When he got home I questioned him and wanted the pajamas and he pushed me hard against the couch and took the pajamas to "throw them away". In reality he went and mailed them to her. I don't know if I was more jealous or angry or hurt and I don't know who hurt me more, the man I was to marry or my best friend. I don't fight so I just kept to myself but I had to live three months in that house until I could move and watch them be together while he rubbed it in my face. I had no where to go and he wouldn't leave. It was awful. They are still together now and have at least one child. I guess part of me is slightly jealous that they can hurt me so badly and live happily ever after.
2007-03-19 23:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by jamlinrich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband & I were arguing on the phone while he met a friend of ours gf to loan her some $$ and pay for her to get a new tire...Anyways, he hung up on me, I hung up on him, and finally when I did calm down, I called him back. She's gonna answer his cell, and tell me I'm wrong for hanging up on him and I should tell him I'm sorry. That did not go over well. I told her that since it's none of her fuc*ing business in the first place, she should shut her mouth and if she has such a problem with how I "treat him" she could take over, but to 1st try & have a serious relationship for more than 2 months. Daniel & I have been together for 7 years & have been through more sh*t than she could dream of. When he called me back a few minutes later, I went off on him too, but it turned out she had used his phone to call her bf while he went to pay for the freakin tire & he didn't know what was going on. We're still friends w/ her bf, but not her. Not bc of that, but bc she's a liar & will do anything to start some drama. And she treats her bf like sh*t. (so who was she to tell me anything anyway?)
2007-03-25 19:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by dmarie2101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the worse time I got jealous was when umm, there was an writing contest at my school about courage, and I wrote this beautiful essay on my older brother. I wrote about how hes been acheiving all his life, and has been a hard worker and everything, and I put alot of work and effort to my essay, teachers loved my story. I brung one coppy of my essay home to my mom to read it, and she loved it as well. I felt so sure that I was going to win.
In my class I'm known as the goodie girl, then gets all these awards and good compliments and gets good grades. And everyone thought I was going to win it. I thought I was too. So the day when my teacher announced the 2 winners, I was like so confident, and so sure of myself, I wasn't worrying about anything.
Then thats when she called 2 other people. The winners were Molly, and this other girl named MUno. But I didn't win. I felt like giving up, and like a sore loser. All my hard work and effort I put into my essay, I didn't even win. I felt so jealous. But as a sixth grader like me, I had to act mature, and be happy for those 2 people who won, and not be so hard on myself.
The 2 people who won got an award, and got to take photo shoots. Till today I'm still disappointed. But I'm not giving up anymore thought. Ha, ha!! I'm a acheiver. Yup thats me.
2007-03-20 06:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by Ebby♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the worst time I got jealous is when I found a number scribble on a piece of paper with a girls name. I blew a stack. yelling, cursing, and even broke up. what I should have done was investigated a little more first, because if i had, I would have found out it was for a restaurant!
2007-03-20 06:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by tonya s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wasn't really jealous,that's just not-me,i was really really pissed-my boyfriend and i had been fighting for weeks, me and my step sister lived together, yes he had sex with her in my bed trying to get back at me for fighting all week, i came back from store, i heard them, i calmly went to kitchen filled a pan with water, boiled it , then i went in my room threw it on there naked bodies, and told them both to get the heck out, well they went, me and him haven't talked since, i have 2 children with him, my step sister and i made up, being mad and holding grudges gets you know where in life, except leading a mean and horrible life.as for him , he found a new girl, got married and had 2 more kids,and cheats on her now and always will. he's a cheater and will always will be
2007-03-28 00:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy I really like told me about his girlfriend. I felt like she must be the luckiest girl in the world. I hope I never have to see him again. But unfortunately I have to work with him soon. Am dreading it!
2007-03-20 06:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by bourbon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my best friends started to mess around my future girl friend
2007-03-27 06:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by Sherif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go CRAZY when i'm on a date and the guy looks for other women! it ruins my image and i hate it! i dumped one for that! :D
2007-03-20 06:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by Sabina S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when some one to whom i love if he/she is with some other person him/she.
2007-03-28 04:06:46 · answer #9 · answered by NR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋