Hi
Im a girl and ive been seeing another girl now for about a month. she is the first girl ive ever been out with, i usually go out with boys, so this is all new for me.
i really really like her and love being around her and keep thinking about her all day,
we've, for want of a better way to put it, 'pleasured' each other a couple of times now and she seems happy enough but i just didnt get anywhere, if you know what i mean.
ive never had sex before, even with a lad so i dont know if that is anything to do with it, but do you think i should be worried that a girl cant do it for me, even though i want to be with her all the time
2007-03-19 22:39:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe when you grow up, you will understand that pleasure is more then asking stupid questions on Yahoo. I would be concerned if I were you, yes concerned enough to get a mental check up!
2007-03-19 22:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Well, I know what you try to say. I had sex twice with a girl, and I didn't 'felt' a thing. I think I wasn't relaxed enough. I think I gave her pleasure, but it wasn't the other way around.
I don't think you have to be concerned, because to me you sound kinda in love with her. Take your time with it. If you're really in love everything will be fine (in future)
good luck
2007-03-19 23:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by frenzie-ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wanting to be with her all the time is rather different from wanting to have it with her. Maybe you need to take care of some inhibitions first to experience any pleasure. I think you should first try to figure out if you feel sexually attracted to women at all. If you are, then just be free with her. You and she will know what to do.
2007-03-20 00:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her!!
If your mature enough to have sex, you must be mature enough to talk about it to your partner.
Liking her, thinking about her and loving her being around isn't the same as love though.
Just cos she cant get you off doesn't mean that girls don't do it for you- maybe your not relaxed enough or she doesn't know what does it for you- thats another reason to talk about it..
Can you get yourself off? Tell her what you do and try that.
2007-03-20 00:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Elsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it goes on video, don't worry about a thing.
Hell, if you're finding it difficult to use the camera whilst with your girlfirend, I'll come round and give u a hand.
(Don't forget to give me a copy).
2007-03-19 23:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by Derek K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,maybe you need to relax & tell your girl friend.Good Luck
2007-03-23 04:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to communicate with her, you obviously have feeling for her so if you want to make it work, talk about what you like and ask her what she likes, i'm in a wonderful relationship with my girlf and know exactly how to please her but she has told me what she likes and vice versa, good luck
2007-03-20 01:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two need to experiment together with different ways to pleaseure yourselves. There's more to do
2007-03-20 03:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt be concerned my girl is b-sexaul and a girl can do it for her why worry
2007-03-19 22:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by william l 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her to show you the way!
2007-03-19 22:42:37 · answer #10 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋