Ok so me and this girl was dating for nearly 11 months if it was still going today.
We broke up friday...for stupid arguements that made no sense...
like sing for me..I kept asking her to sing for me and she got mad eventually and went crazy...the next day she got mad cus I was drinking just a little bit, and the next day after...she was going out the drink with friends to get back at me..and I got afraid so I told her if she did I would break up..so she did instead, and was crying and tryin to talk softly on the phone with me..then out of nowhere, yelled "HAVE A HAPPY LIFE" and ignored me for the next 2 days. she still ignores me...she claims she just wants to be single for a while, but she is craving attention alot now and being flirty.
I dont understand cause we had a great relationship and it just fell in one single week cause of a bluff and arguement? she constantly asks why I dont cheat on her like other guys and such. Some people suggested pms is the cause of her actions.help
2007-03-19 21:48:53 · 8 answers · asked by andy_nc2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No i dont think she wanted to ever break up except when she was mad. She has told everyone time and time again she cant handle going on without me in her life.
When I asked experienced guys about the pms problem, they replied their gfs act the same way but normally feel regret after the period is over.
When I asked girls, they told me they normally want to get back with that person on account that they acted like a total idiot and such.
See before wednesday she did ANYTHING for me, like...she couldn't handle not doing anything without me.
Now she keeps saying im controlling her and stopping her from what she wants. I CANT talk to her, everytime I do she gets mad for NO REASON.
I never took a relationship as serious as this one so I did not pay enough attention to other girls acting like this.
2007-03-20 04:22:22 · update #1
Also it has come to my attention that pms can have yearly effects as well?
Ya women\girls ever thought that their is once or twice out a year where your berserk beyond reason?
and No, I cant really break up with her and I reassured her about that.
I constantly call her beautiful and things like that...only times I call her bad names is when I get pissed off, but normally she just gets worried and asks me whats wrong.
The only reason I still hanging on to her by a thread is cause im hoping pms is the problem and it will flow over.
I mean I literally feel like I got a dagger stuck in my chest cause I put my life on the line for her when she needed me & now she acts as if this whole thing was a mistake.
She dont want me talking to her..but yet she still gets jealous and goes crazy if someone tries to get with me.
and I have NEVER known her to be like this.
The truth is she was going get back with me but she found out this girl made a move on me and she went insane. -.-'
2007-03-20 04:31:45 · update #2
You have a pshyco chick.......I think she's not clear on what she wants in her life at the moment!
2007-03-19 22:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
petty arguments are sometimes healthy..it shows you are pretty open with your communication. A lot of times though, these petty arguements which like in your case lead to ultimatums and break ups are a sign of much larger and ignored problems, that which are never discussed or even avoided. I think you should sit down with her, agree to to meet somewhere and talk..i know it sounds cliche but you may learn something about eachother that you never knew and maybe can work it out. I'd say that only thing you really did wrong was threaten to break up with her..You shouldnt really do that. It leaves the other in a really hard spot and kind of makes them think that you dont care enough..and would throw away your relationship on account of something small. Good luck though. I'm sure you will get back together.
2007-03-20 04:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by Minty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that she's a little confused. Maybe she's been hurt in the past. That she is expecting you to cheat on her like everyone else did. I know I've felt that.. I started dating this guy about 2 weeks ago, and I feel the way she does. But I'm not that scared to flip out... She may have a good reason, I know when I get scared I just want to be alone. Because if I'm single, I don't have to worry about being cheated on... yet it sucks being lonely. So I think I know whats going on in her pretty little mind. If your relationship as been great so far, I wouldn't let her go just yet! If she's anything like me, all you need to do is wait it out a little while, then talk to her.
2007-03-20 05:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think part of the problem is beyond you. Yes , I think she is craving attention at the same time trying to run her attention away. The part that is beyond you deals with the statement you made" she asks you why don't you cheat on her like the other guys" like she expecting this with the behavior she is giving you. Yes. relatonships have their petty arguements but at the same time outweigh the good and bad here. Then ask yourself how much can you put up with.
2007-03-20 05:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u tried talking it out and I dun mean having a shouting competition. Maybe there is something else that is bugging her. Maybe it's totally unrelated to the situation. You never know unless you talk to her about it. Do you listen? or maybe she's just pms-ing. Not every woman suffers from pms....
2007-03-20 05:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sa-Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is just craving for your attention ..true might be due to that time of the month, but don't give it up the relationship, try to talk to her, i believe at the end of the day, she would feel that you do really care for her and things would be fine again.
2007-03-20 04:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by Gaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was the trick i think she want to broke up with you a long time ago and she was trying to find a reason any reson
2007-03-20 08:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by iulia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha. i've been like this before. seriously i dunno wad i wanted back then. now i figured it out. she juz needs ur attention. after all make her smile make her happy and everything will be alright!
2007-03-20 05:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by zdolphinsz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋