me 20 my ex 28 were together for 31/2 years we have a 10month baby gurl he goes to jail for six months gets out and we lived together the whole time i find out hes cheating on me cuz i just had a felling so i asked him and he said yes hes been seeing this gurl for a year were the hell was i the whole time careing his baby so now the loser is back in jail going to prison 4 a while i really dont have time 4 hes lies and games
i have my own house my car i do work and taking care of my baby gurl bye my self i dont need him right.........
2007-03-19 20:51:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Right ! You don't need a LOSER. Sounds like he is very immature and loves jail. His total belief system of what a real man is and being on a macho bad boy trip out to prove hes tough is yesterday's news.
You sound like an intelligent girl and yes you can do it on your own...you don't need that piece of scum to take you down with him.
Best of luck for you and the little one!
2007-03-19 21:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by Intelfem7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first clue was the "bad boy" you chose to father your baby girl. That's a mistake, not to keep, birth control handy. Now, it's a bigger issue, cause you are hurting. Well, um, geez, here's one thing I can say. Now that you did a negative turn it into a positive and change your phone number and locks, and begin to focus on the one who really needs your attention right now. And that, my dear, is your baby girl. You have a grand opportunity to raise her to be a strong and healthy MENTALLY and not hang out with the "bad boys". In fact, perhaps at your age, you've got plenty on your plate, and should just hang with some better circle of friends. Starting with your FAMILY would be good. Something is lacking there, to have you begin in a relationship at 17 with someone who is 25, and NOT have a family support structure to guide you. Now...................time to focus. Your FAMILY is your daughter. She needs you. I'd suggest some counseling to help guide you on the next step to take from here.
2007-03-20 03:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do bad all by youself. leave that loser alone if he isnt man enough to stay out of jail so he can help support his child than he isnt worth your time and heartache. kick him to the curb. but make sure you file for child support so as soon as he gets out of jail he will have to start paying you support of go right back to jail. Move on with your life there are plenty of men who will love you and your daughter the way you both need.
2007-03-20 03:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by alana t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a problem when it comes to guys you may have your sh*t together as far as supporting yourself which is great but you need some serious help when it comes to relationships. And you are so young and going through guys like tampons you need to take a break and focus. Go back and read some of your own questions and answer them. I feel for you and wish I could help hey feel free to email me you need help when it come to guy's in relationship.
2007-03-20 04:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no you don't need him. You are doing all those amazing things on your own, and he's having sex with girls with low self-esteem and in prison. I think you have the better deal. It is good for a girl to have a father in her life, but not if he is going to teach her bad habits, and teach her to find a man like "dad".
2007-03-20 03:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he's in and out of jail, it sounds like he enjoys being a trouble maker. So maybe by cheating and not being afraid to say it, gives him a thrill. Forget him. Be independent. You have the chance to be a great example for your daughter.
2007-03-20 03:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Laurellamags 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You certainly don't need him.
Cheating on you for a year!
Be glad you found out now before your baby girl learns how her daddy disrespected her mummy.
Enjoy life without that dead weight around your neck, a good decent man is just around the corner......
2007-03-20 03:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right. He was seeing two women at once he is not going to stay with just one.
Time to move on and take care of the little one.
2007-03-20 03:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never needed him, what you need is to change your lifestyle, stop chasing the bad guys and criminals, get God in your life and let God be your matchmaker. the wrapping on the present is not important but what is inside the box is.
2007-03-20 03:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by chazzn101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So live without him. You are an intelligent and independent woman. You go girl.
2007-03-20 03:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋