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I can't believe HE did this to me... he knows I like guys who writes, can carry conversations, has great personality ... but he set me up with a poser... at first, I met up with the guy and I find him really interesting at first, but I found out that he didn't even do any of that crap he was telling me about during one of our chat sessions...

Now... I want to strangle my best friend for doing this to me. How can I tell him to shove off without hurting him?
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2007-03-19 20:44:17 · 5 answers · asked by hipandalive 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

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I don't think there's any way you can broach this subject with the poser without him feeling a wee bit slighted/hurt, nice as it is you at least don't care to hurt anyone's feelings.

Why not lay it out plain, telling him something like "Hey, you have a LOT of great things going on w/ you that's gonna make some girl happy....but that girl isn't and will never be....me. It's unfortunate I have to tell you this---but it's better for us both if I told you the truth rather than live a lie being with you."

Ok....there's my model of "the message"; work with it if you like.....and good luck to ya!

2007-03-19 21:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0 0

haa! my dear, where is the spirit of forgiveness? Your best friend might not have meant you any harm but was looking out for your best interest. He was probably conned the same way you were ok.

Do you now want to dump him because of a mistake? Friendship is built on forgiving errors and mistakes as this, after all, you are also not infallible.

Please, forgive him.

2007-03-19 20:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by comradechris 3 · 1 0

not quite sure what a 'poser' is....but you mean the person is a big fat lier? and your best friend set you up for that?

which one of these guys actually likes you and is ur friend?
which one should you worry about hurting his feelings?

peace

2007-03-19 20:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok

2007-03-19 21:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

lol this is dumb..

2007-03-19 20:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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