My boss is a christian and she looks at me as one of her children. yesterday she called me and told me to think about going back to school. but the problem is that she doesn't know that iam pregnant and that my boyfriend refused to give me any assitance. should i tell her that as of now i can't go back to school because of what iam going through? She looks understanding and may be she may help.
What do you think friends coz i like to go back to school so badly.
2007-03-19 20:19:00 · 16 answers · asked by stellaz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Being pregnant shouldnt stop you from going to school. There are probably grants for pregnant women. Ask her if shed help you look into it since shes interested for you.
And I hope he is your ex boyfriend. Once you have the baby you can sue for child support.
2007-03-19 21:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know what you are going through. Many bosses have their best employees tackle the toughest jobs, or do the most, but since you are going through this, maybe he/she will cut you some slack in this area.
By all means, if you are close enough with your boss, then please share what is going on in your life. If I were your boss I would ask what I could do for you.
I am a Christian also, and being pregnant without marraige would not make me think any less of you. You have circumstances and goals, and hopefully you can look back on this and feel like God has answered your prayers, even when you were too stressed out to pray to Him.
2007-03-20 03:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she called you and suggested you go back to school, she is obviously trying to be more than a boss, sounds like she wants to be your friend.
Talk with her, explain your situation , she may know where you can get help to complete your goals.
She may also know someone that can kick the ever living crap out of your future dead beat dad too. When the time comes, make him pay support, he'll regret having not helped you to start.
2007-03-20 03:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by rktavi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I'd advise you to keep private and work lifes separate.
But in this case, yes, sounds like a good idea. Your boss may have some good advice, or may be able to help you out.
2007-03-20 03:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by mgerben 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. we usually believe that work and personal life should be separated. But sometimes, we can meet someone we can feel comfortable with without any reason or any other consideration. Well, if you are religiously connected, and you are close enough to share your daily life issue together, you can find a good timing to share it with her. But do not get too emotional when you are talking about it..Good luck
2007-03-20 03:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by Yogurt and Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well normally you wouldn't have this kind of conversation with a 'boss' but she sounds very concerned about you and you guys have a personal relationship also besides a proffesional one, so yes I would tell her what you are going through. its amazing how certain people in our lives can help us when they are just our boss, or maid , or whatever. they end up being heroes and getting us threw the toughest times in our lives, good luck with everythign
2007-03-20 03:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by princess1226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Irf you can see he is\ open with such kind of thing then try to tell him. That is rally a serious thing to deal with and you need not to keep yoursef. Why don't you ask your parents about this? They may be able to help you. Don't be afraid Just pray to God and don't lose hope. You can surpass that, only you need to be strong and tight in your faith with god.
2007-03-20 03:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by pyrrhus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell her, I am sure you need someone to lean on, even more so during a time like this.Your boyfriend will have to offer at least finical support.I am sure you boss can help you will this also.
2007-03-20 03:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by mother hen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never let a man stand in the way of your success. Talk to your boss. Kind people will always help others.
2007-03-20 03:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by Laurellamags 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do, is accuse your boss of artificially inseminating you while you were passed out on break. That way, she will have to pay you child support. Also, she will most likely go to jail, which will work out well for you, since you will get her job.
2007-03-20 03:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋