i m 23 now, at this stage i feel to get married, as i feel its enough being alone.
One of my aunt wishes me to get married with her daughter, she hasnt said this to me or to my parents, but her attitude and talk shows that.
Few days before i got to see my other cousin's wedding photographs, in that my aunt's daughter can be seen, seeing her after 2years, as she dressed very modestly, that attracted me now towards her.
i dont know whether to ask my uncle n aunt her for marriage for me, but i ve fear of 2 things,
one is that i dont know her, we are complete strangers to each other,
and other is that, marriage between relatives' children can cause disturbances (sometimes fight ) between the parents, as it has already been take place between my other relatives.
please suggest me what should i do.
thanks,
2007-03-19 20:00:43 · 13 answers · asked by frend f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you have to ask you shouldnt do it
2007-03-19 20:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by Shakespeare, William 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's helpful for people here if you provide us with your religion or country because these practices are not common where many of us are from.
Can you court the young woman you wish to marry? Being tired of loneliness is not a good reason to marry. Hopefully you marry because there is love and understanding between you as well as respect, admiration, and compatability.
If it's possible, try courting her first to see if you are compatable. Maybe have your parents dicuss the possibility with her parents. This is a good way to find out if there will be fighting in the future.
Even in arranged marriages all the things I've mentioned above are taken into consideration by the parents. There is no marriage of two strangers without thought given to compatability.
I wish you the best in your decision.
2007-03-19 20:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my own OPINION...you should never marry someone that you don't know...Bad idea! Just because someone looks appealing on the outside, does not at all mean that that their outer beauty reflects what is on the inside. Once you really get to know a person then you can make that decision...otherwise who's to say that she does not have issues that would drive you crazy. What if her personality is completely opposite of yours. instead of a shy, laid back girl, what if she is loud and obnoxious! You should definately at least know a person before you decide that you want to spend the rest of your life with them. I would definately recommend marrying outside of your own family otherwise it just seems a little incestive. ---Good Luck
2007-03-19 20:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by 1.2..3...Boo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 03:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may wish to get to know someone pretty well before you marry them, otherwise you could be in for some unpleasant surprises.Take your time, see the world, get a good education. Have fun.
2007-03-19 20:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by AL L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her before marrying her , you might not even like her and then the marriage would be ended and your be single again
2007-03-19 20:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not think it is wise to get married to your cousin.It seems like u come from a conservative background.Yet marriage is a big decision of life...one of the biggest.U should get to know the person u r going to marry.u should be friends with her before making any decisions.If u really like her,then try to be friends with her first and know her.But know that u have a lot of other options as well.u r still young...life is beautiful.good luck:)
2007-03-19 20:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you love her? Sometimes, you don't need to know a person to love her with all your heart. Trust in your heart, and pray to God for guidance.
2007-03-19 20:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by JD 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
EEEEEuuuuu..how can you marry your own cousin ?
2007-03-19 21:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you read all this stuff in here ? Aren't you learning anything? God help you !!
2007-03-19 20:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would make her your cousin right? then the answer is no, don't marry your cousin
2007-03-19 20:06:00 · answer #11 · answered by princess1226 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋