I have known and loved a man for over 11 years. I do not get to see him that often because of distance and other reasons; but, when I do see him we have the best time with each other. I enjoy the laughter we share; the way he touches me; the way he smells;I just love every thing about this man. It seems that I am so happy with him and everything about him.
The problem is when we have to leave each other.......I get so upset and depressed for days after returning home.
The reason for being apart is that we are both with someone else. Every time one of us attempts to break things off.....somehow we end up seeing each other again.
Is it fate or have I been fooling myself into thinking that maybe someday things will work out for us.
I know if I am ever given the chance to be with this man.....I would be in his bed every night.
I love this man very deeply...he knows this and states that he loves me also. He even shows me that he loves me.
2007-03-19 19:57:22 · 6 answers · asked by destine4_69 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I understand what each of you have said. I am not attempting to justify what I am doing, bcuz I know it is wrong--
2007-03-24 08:15:22 · update #1
Ok.............you perhaps are looking for justification and I can't give it to you sweetie. I just don't understand why you would invest time and energy for 11 years with this man. I don't know about you but I'd be way hurt if I was the one at home in a relationship with you and found out that for most of it you were running off to be with someone else. Time to just STOP. I mean BOTH relationships. You clearly are NOT happy with either one. You need to realize sweetie truly that you only get one go round in this life you have. Time to cut the losses and find his twin when you are single. There are so many guys out there. Obviously you feel stuck in the relationship you got, and don't really enjoy the "casual" way the affair has been going with the other relationship. The only one getting cheated is YOU. Move on.....it's clearly time. You know it. No need to have me state it.
2007-03-19 20:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy Girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he is with someone else leave it alone and move on get over him you are with someone else and so is he what makes you think if you guys get together and are living that same way in dream land oh we love each other and screw the rest of the world. HELLO it will happen to you guys, why? bcuz you are both cheaters stupid wake up
2007-03-24 03:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by anna 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are both married. I am married and if my husband cheated on me for 11 years I would want him to leave me. That is not fair to me why should I (the wife or husband of the cheater) suffer. Leave your spouses and be honest or Stop destroying a home.
2007-03-24 05:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by cathilontz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to say yes because i know exactly how you feel. And YES it is fate because i believe so too..
2007-03-20 03:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by Eclipse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. this is because love is not always with each other.
2007-03-20 03:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by maggie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to forget it it cant work you both are with other people,,
2007-03-25 05:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by beth b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋