well i met this guy about a week ago an he spends every free time he has with me talking to me he talks to me more than he does his mom we comd form the same back ground we both dont know are dads and are moms hate us as well its like something told us to meet or something he says he might be falling for me allready we share allmost every quality the only thing we dont share is how tall an how short i am i think thts the only thing about both of us tht isnt the same how do you know if ur falling in love we both have been hurt so many times is it to good to be true?? HELP!
2007-03-19 19:48:04 · 19 answers · asked by gothic_princess70 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It seems to me that you are both in search of love. The fact that the two of you don't have a relationship with your parents and you both have been hurt in the past is the reason that you both are looking for love. This guy may really be into you because of the things you have in common. However, I am not sure if he is really in love with you after one week. Give it some time and you'll be able to tell if this guy really loves you.
2007-03-19 19:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold up wait a minute!
You've known him a *week*?
Sweet Mary! What's the rush? Slow down. Sounds like infatuation. Love is something that takes a great deal of time and trust to develop. The real thing does anyway.
At the heart of it all, what does it matter? Enjoy being with each other and try not to label your feelings and anticipate where you're headed. Just relax.
2007-03-19 20:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are u so hung up on it? Real love, takes time, and if u keep waiting for the "bubble to burst" you'll never be happy. Seems like this guy is really into u, so instead of rushing, which is probably what u did in the past, and why it didnt work out.. take it slow, make no firm commitments till u know for sure how u both feel about each other, and wait for him to prove everything u need to be proven first before u commit .. people that get hurt time and time again, fall in love so fast with out actually getting to know the person, and usually the "red flags" came up saying "watch out" but because u were in the cloud 9 phase u didnt bother to take notice.. if u really like this guy, and ur hopeing he's the one, take it slow. let it take its course, if he's the one, then u have a lifetime of "knowing" your in love ahead of u.. so just enjoy falling in love for awhile before u want to just leap in feet first..
2007-03-19 19:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Noone can tell u the exact answer but according to senseful humour u must quit with this game and share a good society in shelter of ur guardians. Everybody who falls in these types of affairs they seem to be in very difficult situation after accepting all the terms relating to this , so better to quit rather than accept it , take care plz
2007-03-19 19:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by ashish_jain_ajmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not love. not even close. Lust good possibility. If you have been hurt before no matter how much in common it is not a good idea to let it all go. Sometimes the most compatiable people are the worst because there is not excitement or flair later on once the "honeymoon" part of the relationship dies off.
2007-03-19 19:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by Eclipse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW- I hope you have more in common than you both hating your parents- etc. It takes more than that to build a solid relationship. You can't possibly know if you love someone in a week. I would suggest slowing down your thought process! It sounds to me you haven't personally met him yet. That to me is another red flag. What if he isn't the guy you think he is and he is just telling you what you want to hear? I say proceed slowly- with caution!
2007-03-19 19:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wounded souls tend to find each other to fill the emptiness inside them. It is not too good to be true. My ex g/f and I were like that when we met. The ache in our hearts made our desire for each other all the more intense. We fell in love and it was so sweet.
2007-03-19 21:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just TAKE IT SLOW AND BEFORE YOU TAKE IN EVERYTHING, DON'T TAKE IT TO HEART. WAIT AND WATCH HIS ACTIONS. DON'T PLAY GAMES AND DON'T LIE.START OUT THE WAY YOU CAN HOLD OUT! IT'S ALWAYS GOOD TO BE TRUE EVEN WHEN THE BAD HAVE OUT WEIGHED YOUR LIFE. WHAT CAN BE ACCOMPLISHED BY BEING DECEITFUL? SORRY THAT YOU HAVE BEEN HURT ALLOT. MOST OF THE TIME HURT IS PLACED UPON US TO BARE, JUST FOR YOU TO HELP SOMEONE ELSE. LOOK AT YOU, YOU WAS STRONG ENOUGH TO ENDURE IT. YOU WILL HAVE TO HELP SOMEONE ELSE ALONG THE WAY, MAYBE EVEN HIM. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS.
2007-03-19 20:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this guy has just started to crawl out , give some time, he would start standing nd then start walking...........life is just like this..........as both of you have the same dark side ........both of you realise the pain and feeling.......it would surely make good pair of friends........wait and give him clearance in step.........to sweeten his gains.
2007-03-19 22:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he wrotes and talks like your speling and grammor I would think the both of you are meent for each other, get my drift.
2007-03-19 20:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by Flyboy in Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋