2007-03-19 19:35:48 · 6 answers · asked by downtown Jack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
u may be heading for some legal and moral problems.
2007-03-19 19:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kumar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want both of them, then talk to your wife about your girlfriend and that you want to marry her. If she agrees, then there is no problem or else when she gets to know about it throught some one else, she will not spare you. A friend of mine is married to a man with a wife and two children and both of them are aware about each other although they don't live together, they are happy. If you can balance two families then well and good. But one thing I don't understand is why you men are not satisfied with one woman and always want 2-3 women in your life.
2007-03-20 02:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jayanthi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you can love more than one person in life...and, wow, I'm impressed that you can handle two women + all that comes along w/ it. As a woman I feel sorry for a lot of men since we're pretty mean to them in general (just a "generalization", of course, but there's truth to 'em sometimes). Say you could at least keep both relationships for your lifetime, how do you plan on dividing holidays, etc., etc? what if you end up having dependents w/ both, won't child support be difficult to keep up and if they both don't know about one another how will you maintain your previous lifestyle without continuing to lie to them. Since more than 1 marriage is illegal in most places, I don't know what you should do. I do think ppl. should be able to marry more than one person if all parties involved agree--it's more than just getting along and fun, there's a lot of responsibility involved. Have you considered dealing w/ TWO SETS of INLAWS? if yes, you must be pretty dang charming to get along w/ all those parties/you enjoy a challenge. either way, enjoy life since you never know when it'll end and don't feel bad for what your heart feels. And if you HAVE to pick one, pick the one you'll miss the most if they were to go away forever tomorrow.
2007-03-20 02:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by warpedhybrid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all polgomy is a crime in the United States and you will be prosecuted. So just keep her as the girlfriend and three's company too!
2007-03-20 03:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by Eclipse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Helloooo,another man is playing the role of husband to your wife.ask her maybe you can all be one big family.
2007-03-20 02:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not thinking right. Its very immoral to do that... Please get help.
2007-03-20 02:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by fede 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋