Okay I am recently separated and I'm not sure if women tend to stay away from guys who are, so I'm interested in what girls think. Male comments welcomed as well.
2007-03-19 19:35:39 · 5 answers · asked by Steve A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well from a womans perspective, i can see why women would shy away from a man that is only seperated and not actually divorced , why?
Because 1. This is a common line actually married men will use , to get involved with a woman, (one that is still VERY much married) .. then later she finds out that she's the mistress and not just a gf..
2. Because your still technically married, and some women actually respect the fact that u took marital vows and untill your technically divorced, they dont want to disrespect the vows that you took..
3. because in alot of cases, married couples will tend to get back together during seperation, and she doesnt want to be the rebound girl that gets used to make the wife jealous
4. If their are children involved alot of women will shy away, because they never want to be precieved as the reason why mommy and daddy never got back together..
Some women dont care.. some do.. just depends on the girl..
2007-03-19 19:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have dated guys who are legally separated but only if they are sure there will be a divorce.
If the separation is a test and there might be reconciliation I don't see the guy a second time.
2007-03-20 03:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally separated is not divorced which is the best time a female should date a guy who's married. Things happen when couples date which could cause issues when one of them is still legally taken.
2007-03-20 02:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't date a man who's separated b/c he's still married. I wouldn't even date someone recently divorced.
2007-03-20 02:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they love them!
Hell I got more action when I was single then any part of my life!
It seemed that women cam out of the woodwork!
2007-03-20 02:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋