My husband and I seperated for a week after being married for a year and things are going really well. He treats me with love and respect, our sex life has gotten great and he shows me that he truly does love me, but for some reason, I'm not completely happy. I don't know if it's because I'm 6 weeks pregnant and my hormones are going everywhere or what, but I just can't seem to smile. I can't seem to be happy with where our relationship is at, which is 100% better than it was before we seperated. What do you think?
2007-03-19 19:19:15 · 11 answers · asked by Rebecca M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No I did not get pregnant while we were seperated.
2007-03-19 19:26:44 · update #1
Sorry... didn't put this in the details... we are back together. Have been. But since I got pregnant, I'm just not happy with anything. I'm not happy with our relationship, the way I look, food, anything...
2007-03-19 19:27:53 · update #2
Oh... and I'm pregnant with multiples which I personally think makes everything worse. Worse morning sickness, worse cravings, worse mood swings, etc... Does anyone else agree with this?
2007-03-19 19:33:23 · update #3
sounds like hormones to me lol. ive been prego lots of times so yes we just feel more insecure with EVERYTHING. we need the extra devotion and attention from our husbands to make us feel better. so just let hubby know how your feeling and maybe he can try to perk things up a bit by takin you out to have fun or go and do something youve always been interested in doing but never done.(something safe but fun). hopes this helps.
2007-03-19 19:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by war 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 05:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by barnell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'de guess that it's your hormones that have you feeling confused. Be patient with yourself, and kind to your husband, cos things might get worse, before they get better. Just concentrate on having a healthy baby, love your husband, and leave any serious decisions about your relationship till you feel you're on a more even keel.
2007-03-19 19:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get back together !
The problem is your playing it safe by going to your home in the evening.
Try living with the guy working on your relationship, because thats what will bring a smile back to your face!
2007-03-19 19:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I doubt you are suffering from Bipolar Disorder (it is no longer called Manic Depressive Disorder, those of us who went to college know this LILY). I would talk to your OB/GYN or your general physician. If anything, you could be suffering from Depression, but I doubt it. Pregnancy hormones do cause a lot of stress. Your feelings of confusion are normal.
2007-03-19 19:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but sounds like its you, and not your marriage.. seems to me your depressed.. this should be the happiest moment of your life, and your spoiling it by letting the negative emotions get to u, start focusing on the good stuff and not the bad.
2007-03-19 19:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would any one thing that having a lot of sex has anything to do with being loved!!!!! Why would anyone allow themselves to get pregnant when there has not been a solid married life established first? Are you sure you do not have a mental illness? Are you sure you are not a manic depressent?
2007-03-19 19:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Don't listen to that CPPPO idiot.
It's your hormones, don't worry, you'll laugh and cry from one second to the next.
2007-03-19 19:26:30 · answer #8 · answered by Enchanted Greenheart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then truth is that you have found each other again.however you are being a little guarded.love each other.It will be different this time.
2007-03-19 19:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check with your doctor. pregnancy can exacerbate problems with depression.
2007-03-19 19:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by sweetsouthernjuli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋