2007-03-19 19:13:24 · 8 answers · asked by Peanut Butter 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lilly, you are a loser.
2007-03-19 19:25:18 · update #1
Oh, and Lilly. Maybe you should grow up and mature before answering quesions on Yahoo Answers. Before you can communicate with people, you need to learn how to make sentences that make sense!
2007-03-19 19:29:27 · update #2
Sorry for the venting to Lily. I am internaly a mess inside. After the baby was born, we have been both so stressed, my husband and I, and things have gotten pretty rocky. Thanks for the answers so far.
2007-03-19 19:43:45 · update #3
Yeah it's normal! I've been there myself, several times. you can't turn your feelings on and off like a light and sometimes you just develop feeling for someone that you kinda click with or admire. Don't beat yourself up because people that say you can't or state that you are not emotionally mature are lying to themselves.
2007-03-19 19:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Eric 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal. People form crushes many times even if they are married. The key is what you do with those feelings. Also you mentioned that you had a baby and while a lot of people do not think about it post childbirth can be a trying time. Hormones are trying to get themselves back to normal and many women become depressed or just "off" after having a baby.Just make sure that you stick with your husband because there must have been some good reasons you tied the knot.
2007-03-19 19:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by ipodjohnny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal and it does not make you a bad person, now if you were to act on it, but as a woman I can say most of us women don't. A new baby is a blessing and at the same time it can be a nightmare. It puts a strain on you and your marriage.You try to keep up with everything and keep your husband happy in and out of bed.The whole thing is enough to make you go insane. Do you think men could do what us women do every single day of their life,they couldn't do it for one day but we are expected to do it with no complaining and with a smile on our face.
2007-03-19 20:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes...when things are rough it is possible to develop some infatuation feelings for someone else. While seperated, it happened to me...I just liked the attention I was getting from the other guy. Neither one of us acted on it...but it was a fun flirtation until me and hubby got back together and worked out all our problems. Never cheated on him, never would.
2007-03-19 19:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by angie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes we all
have feelings,if someone treats us good and is nice to us of course we have positive feelings toward them,but you don't act on them and ruin another relationship,that would be wrong.
2007-03-20 02:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by Butch46 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems war is going on between two.
well all individuals r different and there is nothing right for everyone.
2007-03-19 19:54:45 · answer #6 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal, a person cannot control their emotions only their actions. it would be wrong to try and persue this person.
2007-03-19 19:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by happy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No it is not normal. One would never develop a "crush" unless one was looking in the first place. One who does is not emotionally mature and should have grown up before having said "I do".
2007-03-19 19:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 6⤋