I'm in yr 12 and know of a family friend who is in yr 7 and is being bullied, the bully is in yr 7 also. She is like stalking my friend, and I just recently found out about it. I want to help, and I am going to go and talk to my friend first, then the bully, try and scare her a bit. The mum has spoken to the girls teacher but nothing happened, and this bullly is like, well, trash, so I dnt think tlkin to her parents would help. Anyway, what do you suggest? What's something I could say to scare off this girl, BUT I cant get in trouble? What should I do? The girls mum is worried, and even asked me to go and tlk 2 the bully. Should I tell MY co-ordinator or go to the yr 7 co-ordinator? PLZ HELP thanks :)
2007-03-19 19:00:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The mom should go to the yr 7 coordinator. You really shouldn't get involved except maybe to walk the child to classes & such. Also the parents may surprise you, the Mom should talk to them, if that doesn't work she should go to the coordinators boss & then keep going up till she gets to the top boss.If one doesn't work just keep moving up the ladder to the top.
2007-03-19 19:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by love_um_or_leave_um 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, hows it going,
well i was in the same situation last year,
see i was in yr 12 last year, and i had a friend that kept getting bullied in yr 7,
so what i did, is i didn't talk to the bully, cause theres no point,
so what i did, is i went to my co ordinator and told him whats going on, and he went and talked with the yr 7 co ordinator, and they suspened the bully for about a week or so,
then when the bully came back , they started becoming friends,
but just remember whatever u don't let them know who u are, try to not get involved so much, cause it good cause ungly. and u good get caught in the middle of it,
all the best
2007-03-19 19:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by emily j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try being friends with the bully first .I know you think that its trash and maybe that's why the kid is being a bully . You may be hurting its feeling and not knowing it . Its not the bully's fault if they have nothing . Try not to look down on people because you have more . The child is just a human just like you its not its fault its just fighting back the only way it knows how. I can imagine that they are all teasing her and that's not a good thing you can get beat up for that.
2007-03-19 19:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is the bully being physical? If its only words, well that can be ignored. Train your friend to think about just who is trashing her. Is this person important to her? Nah. Then her words are not important.
I would suggest getting all the parents & the kids involved down to the police station & have the police put some scare into the bully.
Unfortunately, if all else fails it may be neccessary to go to fisticuffs. If so, there can be no mercy.
2007-03-19 19:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by LuckyJack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in grade school a couple of kids bullied me until finally i had enough and we had an actual fight and i won! wow! i never knew i could be so tough. that stopped the bullies picking on me, but it probably wasn't the best way to deal with it.
you need to go to both your co-ordinator and your friend's co-ordinator, tell them what is going on. this is an issue best dealt with by the adults, you do not approach this bully yourself.
i'm surprised the teacher did nothing about this. where we live bullying is not tolerated at all.
if the school does nothing then perhaps you, your friend and her mother can go to the community police storefront and ask them to help.
2007-03-19 20:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to both co-ordinators, so they both know what is going on. I was bullied when I was in school. It started in 4th grade and lasted till I was in the 12th grade. The thing I got bullied and teased about the most was my last name. Willoughby, and its very close to Wildabeast to kids who like to bully and tease. From 4th grade on I was made fun of, bullied, and teased and called "beast" by one of my classmates that inturn got everyone else caling me that.
I dont think you should get involved personally as to go and talk to the bully. Let someone with authority handle it. Sometimes bullies bully bc they are jelous, or they dont have things that they person they are bullying does. My 14 year old got bullied and teased so much in his school that he would fake being sick just he didnt have to go, well after numeruous letter from trouncey officers I ended the bullying and teasing after the school did nothing. I moved him 3 hours away to live with his dad and gma.. it was a hard choice but i was out of choices..
2007-03-19 19:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 10:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is being bullied by a girl. lol! tell her to lift weights and eat a lot of oats and steak till she gets strong enough to beat up the bully.
2007-03-19 19:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by Shakespeare, William 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your coordinator or someone who could help you..never leave your friend off guard...
tell your principal..hehehe
well i'm serious
2007-03-19 19:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by mysticbluz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋