I like my personal space and my husband and I are total opposites (he's a cancer and I'm gemini--yes, I know there's more to it when entire charts are done. I have 3 planets in cancer, maybe that's why we're not a total astrological disaster). Know of a couple that has been happily married for 30 odd years living across the street from one another in berkeley? Has anyone tried this way of life? For me living w/ ANYONE is not my idea of fun. I prefer to maintain all our activities minus the boring parts of life (i.e., sharing common quarters like bathroom and kitchen space) and continue to dress up when going out as well as being spontaneous in ALL ways (as usual since I hate routine). How is playing house and seeing someone in the morning and evening a joyful thing to do for life? Just because I said "I do" didn't mean that I wanted to live w/ the person I love in a situation similar to being in a submarine. He's 39 and I'm 28 + we've been married for almost 7 years now.
2007-03-19 18:56:16 · 8 answers · asked by warpedhybrid 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actually, I just read something about something similar. Apparently, many houses are being built now with two completely separate master-suites, for the very same reason. married, but plenty of space.
I don't think your idea is so far fetched.
2007-03-19 18:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just make sure he wants the same thing. In my case I would like the company even if we have nothing to say, but yes sometimes every one need some time alone. You both can have separate rooms or private studios as an alternative to the two house scenario. Just make sure everything is clear, he might misunderstand and think you just want to break up.
2007-03-19 19:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The living separate in a marriage is very unusual, but anything if possible. What's the purpose of getting married if this is the case, you may as well stay friends with special privileges, that way if you decided to take the vows, it would be more meaningful.
2007-03-19 19:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur way of linking with zodic appears silly as we r also Cancer and Gemini(f) couple having fantastic life.
so just take a step back and try to sort the things out instead of blaming each other.
2007-03-19 19:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is just silly.
maybe u like your personal space because your husband is not the one.
whatever. adults. do what u want.
all cancers and gems i kno get along GREAT.
2007-03-19 19:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by Not here 2 make friends 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a problem, because without "all that boring stuff" your just **** buddy's!
sorry but it's true.
2007-03-19 19:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
,ego check self absorbed its all about me attitude astrology freak ,who cares how you live maybe its because you cant stand yourself maybe and you dont want anybody to no the true you
2007-03-19 19:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Are we using our brains today 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
oh
2007-03-19 18:58:31 · answer #8 · answered by octo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋