Okay here is the deal the last time I had sex was on March 2, and we used protection(condoms) I had not been feeling any pregnant symthoms but this morning I had like a small morning sickness. I took the early test and came back negative. last night befor I went to sleep I had cramps I usally have them three or four days befor my period. It's driving me crazy because my husband and I have not had sex since the 2 because of doctor's oders my husband got a vestomy on the 8 of March I am scared that if I am pregnant that he going to think I cheated on him. What are my chances.
2007-03-19 18:51:36 · 10 answers · asked by VAIN 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No I did not cheat on my husband I know I have a good man and would not do that I got my last period on Feb 22
2007-03-19 19:00:12 · update #1
if you are pregnant and he thinks you cheated take a test when the baby is born and then he'll feel like an ass. but the chances are that your 99.9% not .you may just be stressed because he had the surgery and it is probably a little crazy right now so relax and wait it out
2007-03-19 18:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, let me tell you something you can pass on to your husband. I have an aunt who had her tubes cauterized, and her husband had a vasectomy, and 2 years later they had a little girl. A paternity test proved he was the father. It DOES happen. And you don't get "like a small morning sickness". Either you were sick or you weren't... One stomach ache does not mean you're pregnant. There is no way to tell for sure except to go to the doctor and have them do a pregnancy test by drawing blood... Your hormone levels start to go up early in the pregnancy, and although at-home tests detect this hormone, they only detect it once it's high enough. A blood test is more accurate. I saw your other posting, too. No doctor would be able to tell you by ultrasound yet. Looks like you'll just have to wait a little bit and either see if you get your period or go to the doctor and get a test. And have the doctor talk to your husband about the fact that vasectomies are not 100% effective.
2007-03-19 19:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all he'll know he had sex with you on the 2nd so he'll already know why you are pregnant if you are. So you don't have to worry about him thinking you've cheated on him. Your biggest problem might be that you could be pregnant. You obviously don't want any more children. You are worrying a little early anyway especially since cramps are normal for you just before the periods. Don't worry; it's not good for you.
2007-03-19 18:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on when your last period was, but it's pretty unlikely you are pregnant. You could wait a week and take another test if you have symptoms and/or don't get your period when you were expecting it. The small morning sickness and cramps are probably nothing, just related to your stress about the situation.
2007-03-19 18:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mojito Burrito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on if you ovulated on the 2nd. You didn't say when your last period was. You may just be paranoid that you might be and that causes a lot of "symptoms". Before I found out I was pregnant I had really sore nipples and I was really tired. Wait a few days and test again if you are worried.
2007-03-19 18:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by schs_spartan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A vascectomy is not perfect for at least 30 days you may wish to take that into consideration beside that the vascectomy was done after you last had sex from what you are telling us where is the promblem ?lol
2007-03-19 18:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband's procedure takes a couple of weeks to be totally effective--the doctor should have told him this fact. The rest of the story depends on a doctors visit and then you will handle it your own way.
2007-03-19 18:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait another 5-7 days before you worry too much . you could start a little late. stress can affect your cycle a great deal.
2007-03-19 18:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by jaymee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off did you cheat on him if so then he doesnt need you, if you didn't the answer is simple nothing is 100% full proof and you two might be parents soon
2007-03-19 18:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by jrgimp 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as the test is negative then it is so. please be not worried, it is just one of the days we all wake up to that the world just seem to start off differently
2007-03-19 19:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by tolitstolites 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋