y did god take???

Question

y did god have to take the best guy ever in bayfield??? y couldnt he have took some one else?? he didnt even get to live his life?? i love god but he is soooooooo messed up!!! can i ever get this guy back into my life?? i know the answer is no but could i die early and go see him??? y did god take him god is messed up?? but i do love him!! but i miss ray!!! y??? im not to happy with god rite now though!!

Answer 1

He took him because it was his time to go & you won't go until it's your time to go. If you die early you will be taken by the devil & thats the opposite direction from where you want to go.God has his reasons for everything, & I know you can't see that right now, but you will later.He is in a better place, just try to remember that when you are hurting.

Answer 2

Even I went thru the same thing 5 years back when my friend got married. At that point of time I was completely shattered and started feeling very low. I was under tremendous depression, so much so, I wish I could commit suicide. I asked only one question Why it happened with me? I cried a lot and start doubting myself What went wrong? Do I lack somewhere? But God's answer was same he is not meant for you. But you have to live the life, whatever may come. I know that right now you what you are going thru. But trust me God is not at all messed up. God knows what is the best for us. With the grace of God, you will definitely find someone. But for now, keep patience and Have faith in him.

Answer 3

Everyone has a purpose in life and it was his time to go. No one can ever tell you why or what his purpose was. Just remember all the good times you had with him and remember all the happy stuff, he would want you to be happy. It was his time to go so god took him, that means he has fufilled his purpose in life so it wa time for god to take him. I hope this advice helps you a little. b/c really there isn't anything i can say to make you fill better. Because you have to deal with it in your own way. But i hope this helps a little and i wish you the best of luck

Answer 4

As for the christian concept of god, that god is cruel and unusual with an extreme multiple personality disorder... Who creates a bunch of angels then sends them to a "supposed" Hell,? And kills every human and animal... When they asked jesus where hell was he split the earth, so was said in the KJV. And when they asked him of heaven, he pointed to the clouds and sky... Be assured that when we die, we are deffinately in a better place with out pain, no type of pain whatsoever, for there is no physical body and for the spirit to feel is but feelings of amazement and awe... Things will be ok,, sorry for your loss,, death is a sad subject but everyone must deal with it time and time again... Things will get greater later.. Be happy that he is without the pains of life, enjoy the good memories and do good with your life to make him proud... Best wishes...

Answer 5

Darlin god didnt take him anywhere . Plain and simple truth is people die . Some die before they had a chance to live . It may seem unfair that your b/f died I feel for your loss . No one was given any garuentees when they were born . Other than one day they would die . Try to remember the good times you had with him .

Answer 6

When someone who is very dear and near, and most of all when it is someone that was a boyfriend, dies it is hard to come to terms with his Death. I, know what you are going through, I also lost someone, who was killed, by senseless men who thought they were God when they killed him with 87, stab wounds all over his body, as I am telling you this there's nothing anyone can say to alleviate the pain I still feel for his Death, he was my oldest Grandson, who was only 23 yrs. old at the time of his Death, I remember clearly that I got angry with God, when that happened, I asked him why didn't he protect him from those animals, because you can not called them men, I even went into depression and it took me, two yrs. to come to terms with his Death. So, I feel for your loss, because it is very hard to find comfort with the passing of a Loved one. But, just remember that God has put us on this planet for a purpose, it is up to us as to how we are going to find it, and live the life he has granted us, when he decided to give us this life to live as he would want us to do. I have asked our Lord, to forgive, me for the awful things I said when my Grandson died, and I am sure he forgave me, all I want him to do is to do justice for him, and to never let them forget, that they took a life, that had a lot of promise in his future. I will say a prayer, for you and I will ask our Lord to watch out for you, and not to let you suffer too much. I care.

Answer 7

It is not for you to known who and when God needs to take someone to Him. You will die when it is God's time and if you believe in God and love Him you should know that and not worry or be angry. It will not change a thing.

Answer 8

iam really sorry to hear that,
none of use want our loved ones to die,

and its not god's fault that his gone,

i strongly believe in god, but god doesn't make the decisions, if its ur time to die,

and i think that u should stay here on earth,
because once ur dead ur dead, theres no heaven and hell,

things will get easier for u trust me,
ive been throught this so many times,

Answer 9

i'm sorry that your going thru a sad situation.we all have our different path in life.maybe it his time to go.please don't blame god for your lost.i bet you ray is lookingdown on you and telling you to let him be with god.his probably in better place sweety.i hope that you find in your heart the closure that you need.someday you will be ray.

Answer 10

I was wondering if you could tell alittle more about what happened to ray and what the circumstances around his death were? Sorry for your loss