No.
Apart from the fact that a 14 year old (both male and female) is still developing physically and sex may actually be an uncomfortable and unsatisfying experience - a sexual relationship is a significant responsibility for a child of 14 to take on board.
There are a whole lot of points to consider, especially the consequences of having sex at such a young age - pregnancy, STD's, HIV to name but a few - and the highly emotional impact of having sex.
Sex is an adult realm that not even a lot of adults handle very well - having sex while you are still all but a child is never a good idea. It's not like eating an ice cream.
If you are wanting to have sex and move into the adult world, then are you also prepared to take on the rest of what goes with being an adult?? - paying the rent, scrubbing the bathroom, balancing the bankbook, getting a job, paying your taxes, getting your car fixed, buying the groceries, cooking the meals, buying insurance, making medical appointments... not too glamorous, is it?
Enjoy being a kid as long as you can - it will be over soon enough.
2007-03-19 19:20:58
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answered by SydneyMum101 6
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i think not you should wait until you are old enough to understand what sex is there are a lot of stds out there that could ruin your life any one that pressures you for sex don't respect you must less love you wait until you are older and find that special person and be able to share a special time with only that person and i know you are young and this is probably not what a 14 year old wants to hear but do your self a favor if choose to have sex ask your self this question what about when you want get married and that person says how many people have you been with and at what age did you have sex is this going be a hard question for you to answer also use protection not only from getting pregnant but also use condoms to protect you from stds
2007-03-20 09:53:03
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answered by Amy 31537 3
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No! Wait!!!!!
There are more things in life for a 14 year old than to be thinking about sex whether you are a girl or a boy, 1st- education, a 14year old should just be worrying about graduating from high school, deciding what they want out of life and enjoying life, because there are many things that sex can cause such as: 1- sexually transmitted diseases, 2- pregnancy, 3- diseases that are not curable (HIV, AIDS, HP1,2,&3), and always remember( NO BIRTH CONTROL IS 100% SAFE AND ACCURATE) so JUST WAIT!!!!!!!!! Until you get all of the facts, (read !!!) go to your local library, doctor's office ,or most of all your parent or gardian and talk to them about this before you make the wrong dissicion. until then stay in school and be blessed!
Ps- Always remember you have a short time to be a child and a long time to be an adult, think about it
2007-03-20 02:10:22
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answered by natina a 1
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no you shouldn't. at that age regardless if you love the person or not, you will be taking something away from them that could never be returned. as well as you will have to suffer great consequences for that action. sure it might feel good at the time, but what happens if that person leaves you, well they take a part of you with them too. there is a reason why you are supposed to wait until marriage... other than that you have a very great chance of getting an STD,
think of it this way... down the road when you finally find the person you are to marry, do you really want to have to tell them that because you didn't wait for them, you have an STD or a child.... that will forever effect your relationship.
2007-03-19 19:00:44
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answered by emren 1
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If you have to ask, the answer should always be no.
14 is too young for the person to be able to deal with the possible/probable consequences of having sex.
2007-03-19 20:07:07
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answered by missmonkeyhill 1
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no i think thats an way 2 early age but sometinmes teens dotn listen 2 what others say so if its u or someone that u noe thats goin 2 have sex please use protection use condoms n or birth control u wont wanna get pregnant at a yong age but please do not have se wait at least when ur a lil more older take it from some one that noes
2007-03-19 19:45:05
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answered by 9U3R@ bBY 3
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The answer is no. If you're not responsible or financially able to support a child, I suggest you not have sex.
2007-03-19 18:48:25
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answered by It is what it is 3
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Only if you want to be a daddy...think about it...you have your whole life ahead of you.
2007-03-19 19:02:14
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answered by angie 4
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It depends. A lot of the time u shouldn't. But if u really love someone and u use protection i think it is fine.
2007-03-19 18:52:29
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answered by Beautiful Brunette 1
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No. you are way to young!
2007-03-19 18:45:07
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answered by Thumbs down me now 6
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