This is about romance. I want more fresh Ideas on how to romance my wife. I do the most usual things like buying chocolates,roses, body massage, feeding her sliced mangoes and making the bedroom into romantic setting with soft love music playing.
The royalty treament is what I do but can you think of anymore surprising ideas.
I really enjoy catering to my wife. I accept filipino culture and want a variety of ways to shower her with my love.
I want filipina's ideas only please.
2007-03-19 18:16:18 · 10 answers · asked by Big P 5 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Philippines
Yes, go ahead Big Chuck. I know you are a frequent visitor of the Philippines community. No problem.
2007-03-19 23:30:17 · update #1
okay AJ thanks for your 2 cents
2007-03-20 05:04:05 · update #2
She's a very, very lucky girl big P!
Here are few things for a quickie romantic bonding rituals to your daily routine---
1.) Clown around--- those who laugh together last together!
Come to think of it... maybe playing a kiddie game, like Twister.
2.) Dream On---- Before you spring out of bed, spend a few minutes recalling & sharing your dreams from the night before. And it may give you both a case of the giggles. Have a sense of humor, & remember, the more bizarre stuff you share with one another, the better.
3.) Get unplugged----- Next time the two of you are getting ready to relax, resist the urge to crash on the couch in front of the TV; you'll be happier if you don't. According to a study 26% less satisfied with their relationships than couple who watch less than the average amount. So skip your sitcoms & pop in a soulful CD instead-- or just snuggle together in serene silence.
4.) Do the Write thing----- Get a pen & sheet of paper & sit down at a table; then jot down a pleasure list. Record at least 10 things your woman does to make you feel incredible---The reward?
Remarkable insight into the little things you can do more of to make her feel even happier.
5.) Ready, set, smooch!----- Before you part ways in the morning, meet in the kitchen for a timed kiss.
6.) Compliment her like crazy---- Next time your girl's perusing Esquire or watching a preview of the latest Angelina Jolie flick, lean over & whisper in her ears that not only is she sexier than those high-profile babes, but she also makes a better wife! Couples who talked about positive aspects of their relationships reduced stress by 15%.
7.) Sip to a sunset---- Take the edge off a harried day by relaxing together with a refreshing cocktail. Enjoy your drinks outside in the fresh air while you watch the sun go down.
8.) Pause for pillow talk.---- Before you lull yourselves to la-la land. share a pillow. Spending a few minutes face-to face will inspire you to whisper in each other's ears, stare into each other's eyes, & hug super tight.
9.)Plan the perfect getaway---- Browse in your internet's travel site together & each of you choose the top 10 places you'd like to visit. Go over your fantasy destinations together. Discover you've got one in common? You just took the first step toward making a shared dream come true.
10.) Satisfy your sweet tooth---- stop by your local bakery on the way home & pick up two of your favorite desserts. After dinner, brew & feed them to each other.
11.) Find a favorite snapshots---- Whip through your wedding album & point out your favorite shots. (Don't forget to tell her she looks even more fabulous today!) It will make her smile & even giggle!
LOL!
These are the things I love to do with my beau.
I hope this will work on you too.
Good luck! (--,)
2007-03-19 19:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am a man, and sorry to intrude. I just wanted to say, you give and give for and to your wife, that is part of your character, a romancer and that is all fine and well, but I hope she feels the same about you and you have not spoiled her. I have seen this before and it usually is all one sided. You must remember, this Filipino is your wife and I hope as well you companion and best friend. Sometimes if you put too much icing on the cake, it soon slides off. Women are competitive by nature, put a pretty woman on your arm and watch all the others seek your attention. Go to the same location alone, and get a cold shoulder because you are now less a challenge. I hope your wife never looks outside for a new challenge, of course all people are different, luck..
2007-03-20 11:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by AJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about cooking for her?
Recipes to try: Dinuguan, Laing, Dinengdeng.
Okay, you may change the menu, but you get my drift. One night, prepare a meal yourself, set up a candlelight dinner (if you have a backyard, even nicer to set a table there, especially on a night when the moon is full), soft music at the background (jazz), dim the lights, dress up nicely and wait for her to come home from work.
Once she comes in: greet her with a kiss, glide along towards the living room, fill her glass with champagne (will not stain, hahaha!) and dance a bit. Once she's full of laughter, guide her to the table, offer her a seat and gaze lovingly into her beautiful eyes while you both enjoy the meal.
A toast to a loving relationship. Mabuhay!
2007-03-20 01:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by tranquil 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
what does your wife love to do best? if my boyfriend shares with the things i really love to do, it makes me feel very happy because he shows an effort to learn and love the things i always want to do.
writing a note or a letter every now and then makes me feel cared and loved. the effort that my boyfriend puts into buying the card, thinking of the rights word to say are enough to make my day and week!:)
and one more thing, showing how much you care for her infront of other people not necessarily, hugging and kissing but merely, holding her hands when she gets off the car or simply carrying her things are more than romantic, i think.:)
btw,thanks mr big p for answering my question. my sister would soon get married to an african-american and guess what,he's really nice.
2007-03-20 10:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by warrior is a child 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Harana (Serenade) in the old days this is the way to court a woman....make her feel like being married won't stop you from expressing how much you want to spend your lifetime just loving her. Or you could ask musicians to play...while you dine and then dance with her under the moonlight.
For the song, how about "Be my Lady" by Martin Nievera...search for the lyrics....very romantic!
2007-03-20 01:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mitchiko 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Serenade with a twist!
My beau and I have very unique personalities, especially me. So what'll he'll do is take a popular song, then change some or sometimes all of the lyrics to make it more personalized.
It really makes me feel very special, and I love hearing his voice. Never you mind if you don't sing very well, just refrain from shouting at the top of your voice. :) If you sing well, then good for you.
Good luck!
2007-03-20 03:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Laika 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry BIG P I'm not a Filipina but I loved the question and loved the responses. Hope you all don't mind if I pinch a few of your ideas.
2007-03-20 06:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by PC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really love it when my husband make me rest all day, breakfast in bed,chores are done, or when he takes me out for out of town that I've never been too,and we will stay in a nice hotel.
i like it when he took me for a drive in scenic highway 1. that was beautiful.
i don't know if your wife's will like it, but i certainly did. and my husband is Black American too.
2007-03-20 02:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
write her a love letter ,,,,youre sweet big p.youre the man!!!
2007-03-20 09:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by tisya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah... a serenade can work and also cooking for her...
2007-03-20 05:15:10 · answer #10 · answered by laviet09 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋