im confused about this.. my mom said that im abnormal 4 being a lesbian.. plz help.. T_T
2007-03-19 17:54:03 · 16 answers · asked by FroZbiTeCoOLiTzZ09 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no it is not a sin!!it is completly normal...god loves everyone right soo yea its normal
2007-03-19 18:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by ღ 3SA sL33PY CaNT B3 sToPP3dღ 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Sin is a religious concept, it has no bearing on 'right'/'wrong'/'neutral', unfortunately people get confused about this. Being a lesbian may well be a sin, however, as I'm a Pagan I don't believe in sin, or hell.
Being lesbian, bi, gay, etc is not wrong, it's neutral as most things are. You're not harming anyone, other than perhaps your mother's backwards outlook on life, but that's not your fault, she needs to overcome her indoctrinated views which are clouding her judgement.
You don't have a choice, you are the sexuality you are, you're not (I hope) a rapist, murderer, transphobe, racist, peadophile, etc. Those are wrong, being lesbian isn't.
2007-03-20 09:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by TFR 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being a lesbian is NOT a sin and you are not abnormal for being who you are. Everyone has a right to live, don't let your mom make you feel bad about being a lesbian.
*hugs*
2007-03-21 21:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sabryna 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depending on your religion, yes it is a sin. Only God can judge homosexuals. And just because God still loves you doesn't make the sin right. God love loves thieves, murders and child molesters also. But their actions are still wrong. Remember this God hates the sin, not the person.
Unless you don't believe in God, then your free to do whatever you like.
2007-03-20 15:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by Knowledge 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a homosexual is a variation of the norm. I don't think it's a sin. It's a sin to cause harm to a person including yourself. You have to be very thoughtful not to cause harm and it's very hard to avoid in any sexual relationship. You may not deceive or use people as objects for your own gratification, and you must take responsibility for the results of your actions, even if they are unintended. Most are not thoughtful enough to notice the harm they do. Your mother is worried about your future happiness and she knows how difficult life is when you are different. You can surely understand that. I hope you can appreciate that love and still love yourself as you are.
2007-03-20 01:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by Nowpower 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In no way, shape, or form are you abnormal. Your mother is just not open to and accepting of the idea of you being different, which is all that you are. Just like we can choose to believe in god, or how to worship him, just like how people throughout the world have different cultures and ways of life, being gay/bi/lesbian is the same.
Never feel bad or ashamed of it :) I myself am straight, but I see absolutly nothing wrong with being attracted to the same gender. My two best friends are infact both homosexuals, one a girl and one a guy. The fact that they are oriented that way does not change who they are inside or affect the good qualities about them, nor does it affect who you are either. You're still the same person no matter what your preferences are, so why should it matter.
2007-03-20 01:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by Brad C 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
no one not god not ur mom no one can tell you who u are u make that choice because by being who you are u rise against the pressure and become that one in a millon that counts that says to the world" hey look i'm lesbian and i'm proud" you should not be shot down by ppl you should be going the way u want . you would stop driving if a few bugs hit the window shield. so dare to be urself cause thats the best person u can be :)
2007-03-20 01:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by swissqt55 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, you are not abnormal. It sounds like your mom doesn't understand this lifestyle. Being what and who you are does not make you a sinner. Have you tried sitting her down and talking it out? Let her know how you feel because your feelings count too. Like I said before, just be you. Good luck to you sweetie!
2007-03-20 03:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by S.F. Girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes homosexual and lesbian are sinful because Allah the only one God does not like it.God hates homosexual and lesbian.It is stated in the holy Qur'an in Surah 15 Al HIJR verse 73 they (lesbianists and homosexualists) were killed by a strongest voice of lightning before dawn. Verse 74 God made the city(Sodom near middle sea) upsidedown and gave hard stone rainBesides that according to the research result homosexuality and often replacinmg partner will be potential for getting HIV/AIDS disease which is difficult to be cured.
2007-03-20 01:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋
IT'S NOT A SIN.
SIN IS A MAN-MADE THING.
Why can't people just shut up about this topic?
It's more played out than the macarena dance.
2007-03-20 01:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by chrisj 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes it is a sin,but not to worry if u confess your sin and are truly repentant God will forgive you.Yes you have the right to live.
2007-03-20 03:27:00 · answer #11 · answered by dementia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋