Poll for men: Soft-natured, sweet, cooperative girl OR strong, independent-minded assertive girl?

Question

Which one would you pick, for a long-term partner.

Answer 1

someone who's a little bit of all those.

Answer 2

that is a hard one because when on her own you want a women that you can trust to make hard decisions and be true to you but in the bedroom you want sweet and sometimes you want strong why not i will take both