How can i be there for my friend when her dad has cancer and yet my mom has cancer and i am having a hard time being there for myself. What do i do to comfort her?
2007-03-19 17:25:13 · 7 answers · asked by cassy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be there for each other...Listen to each other and be there to cry on each others shoulder...You have your own mini support group, support each other...I hope both of your parents come out of this just fine...(((MOMHUGS)))
2007-03-19 18:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is something to look up to for futures to come. Tough'n it out for her, tell her that things will turn out ok. The more stronger you are about it the more she'll start to get strong, motivated and start to look up to you. The more your there for her on tough times the more she'll be there for you on tough times. It's cool to break down now and then cuz it is a hard situation to deal w/. But I believe that your strong. You can deal with it! You have a strong heart, look into your mom's eye's and see that they still live, she's still hanging in there so take after her, hang in there! she's strong, your obviously strong cuz it's in your blood!
2007-03-19 17:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her. She'll be there for you.Talk to her tell her how you feel about the situation, you will help each other.If she is comfortable talking about it you will be to.What you both will be going through is hard having a friend go through it at the same time can be helpful. Good Luck
2007-03-19 17:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be there and talk to each other for comfort and to be able to say how you feel to someone who knows what it is like. Sorry you are both going through this. Try to be strong.
2007-03-19 17:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by xyz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you guys can be there for each other, take her out for a nice time and don't talk about your mom or her dad, just be, just live, have a normal time to ease your mind for a day.
2007-03-19 17:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Youll See 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just keep telling her she's not the only one suffering that pain and that if she has hope, then she can get better. keep saying positive thoughts. My parents said if you say positive thoughts, it may happen, and it has been working for a while
2007-03-19 17:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by youran_lee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha you can give me lots of food and money lol. im just kidding...be there for me...but its hard i know...and if you need me just call...cause i know...sort of.. love ya anyway!
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2007-03-20 10:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by lalala- lisaღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋