and he refuses to try and work things out and is addiment about leaving would rather i have an abortion because he doesnt want a kid right now. What do i do. I dont want to do this by myself.
2007-03-19 17:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by kristin_russell2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
obviously morally i cant do what he wants i was not going to even tell him but he found the box to the test and asked then i hoped maybe he would stay and we could work things out but still no way he says. i already have one daughter how will i raise another by myself?
2007-03-19 18:07:35 · update #1
just because he doesnt want a child doesnt mean you need to abort the pregnancy. you need to think do you want this child? if not there definately is someone who would love a child that cant have children of their own. also, it doesnt seem like hes comming back and he sounds like he is too stubborn to fight with about it anyways. you can do anything you put your all into....if you want this child honey you can do it or you can let someone else love it. I hope this helps...and remember if you ask for help there will be help from someone...you are not going to be by yourself.
2007-03-19 17:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As I write, there are no answers displayed just yet, but I guarantee you virtually all of your answers will state that your b/f has to deal with it, and not run away! If he didn't want 'a kid' (I always hated that word 'kid'...it lessens the beauty of what the baby/toddler is...a Beautiful Child). His response is totally selfish and, right now, it may be the VERY reason he tried to break up with you in the first place...he wanted to avoid responsibility. You are forgiven if you tell him to grow up, and work on who and how the beautiful child will be raised!
2007-03-19 17:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get help. get help from a source that you know can be trusted. first, you need emotional support becuase if you can't handle all the stress, everything else will turn out wrong. then, find out if there are any laws that protect you and anything than at least forces him to take part responsibility. you can work it out from there and get an abortion. or, if you have someone who is willing, they can help you through this and help care for the kid :] good luck
2007-03-19 17:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by miisty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would talk to someone about what is going on., you can
only do what is best for you. and if he does not want to
work thing out then let him go, but if you want this child
then he will have to take responsibility for this child.
and for he does not want a child right now then he should
have thought about that before. good luck to you.
2007-03-19 17:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this case u must think carefully. if u really want that child, keep it. if he doesn't want to be with u anymore, try getting his explanation. if he refuses, then u can make ur decision based on ur friends n family's advise... but if i were u, i'll keep that child bcoz the baby is a part of ur ex-fiance. and i would like to have it with me forever
2007-03-19 17:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by ctkm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put the baby up for adoption or choose to keep the baby and raise he/she on your own but make the ****** pay child support. Don't let him run your life. ******!!!!!!
2007-03-19 17:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what do you want to do? If you dont agree with abotion then you might want to keep the baby. If you really love him and want a piece of him with you forever keep the baby. If you dont care, i would say have an abortion
2007-03-19 17:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by Modus Operandi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
do what u want to do it is ur body and he obviously dont want a kid so u know what the right thing to do is.
2007-03-19 17:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by sasha h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should of thought about that before you two put the pole in the hole! things happen unexpected well it is true this is reality you dont have to give thumb down grow up
2007-03-19 17:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by Newlywed 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
time to go to the doctor
2007-03-19 18:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋