In the past year I've become open to who I really am and what I feel which is liberating but also makes one cautious (to how others think/descriminate) even if it's in a bisexual sense.
It's now nearing my first year at University (which I entered straight out of highschool), and I met this great group of friends. One of them, a girl who's 6 years older than me... and in her second last year of University I've become fond of. My last two relationships with males haven't really worked out because I've been attracted to her (though haven't told anyone).
And in the past month, she's questioned why I keep breaking up with bfs but I didn't really answer. She also likes to sometimes play footsies, likes to hold my gaze across a table/room, joke/bug me, and sometimes poke me.
Yet... I dunno... Is this flirting from another gal and if it is... what do I do about it? *afraid to ruin friendship if she's not bi or lesbian*
2007-03-19 17:11:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's not a choice. I've felt like this since I was a young teen. People (girls) date guys so they can be normal in small town highschools where the people treat you like crap if you don't go with the norm.
2007-03-19 17:20:07 · update #1
Start out slow with her, grab her butt or her tiitties & wathc her reaction, if she smiles, go for it, take it to the next level & invite her over for drinks, Ask her if you can kiss her, if she lets you, then (yes) you have her.
2007-03-19 17:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda sounds like she's interested in you too. It sounds kinda like she's flirting and I think when she asked why it didn't work out with your previous boyfriends she was trying to figure out your sexuality.
2007-03-19 18:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a sleepover and play young girlie games like truth or dare and when she picks truth ask her if she's lesbian or bi
2007-03-19 17:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by clueless 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
JUST ASK HER IN A POLITE WAY AND TELL HER YOU ARE JUST WONDERING................YOU MIGHT JUST BE SURPRISED BY HER ANSWER!!!
2007-03-19 17:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋