then they wanted to move to another state with your kids and you didnt know anything about anything exept that she wanted to leave
2007-03-19 17:06:35 · 21 answers · asked by its me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She can't move to another state without your permission. If she tries, get a restraining order, and an order for temporary custody of your kids from a judge, and then get her arrested when she tries to cross state lines with them.
But it's sad that you didn't pay enough attention to realize that "and you didn't know anything about anything exept that she wanted to leave" a lot sooner than this.
2007-03-19 17:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would look up the laws. At one time where I live if your under age children knew that your spouse is having sex with this person the children would be given to you. There was a program on the radio with an attorney that said she lost a case for a client because her client was sleeping with a guy and the children knew. Good luck be glad the b left so you can have some one that is right for you. She well not have a good life I can promise you that. Just do not let her get your children.
2007-03-20 00:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EWWW! Tell her that yahoo and almost ALL other internet meet and greets are a fantasy(who hasn't wanted to flirt with a stranger) anyone can be who they want to be online-its a fantasy-a lot of people are scam artists who try to "lure" people to other states-if she really must go, let her but keep your kids-cite relative unstableness as the cause-for all you knoww her paramour could be some twisted pedophile who is really interested in your kids-Seriously! I mean I totally get the idea of someone(NEW) who doesn't see you as a hausfrau, thinks you are fabulous and is holding no baggage about the past x years but in time the history will be the same and the fantasy will end/die-bummer for your kids to lose their life just because mom is suffering from temporary insanity
2007-03-20 00:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by bikinibabewannabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my spouse meet someone on yahoo then I would think about the type of person she was and if she was not someone I would want to raise my children without me close by then I would let her go and keep the kids with me.. If she didn't want to leave the kids with me I would tell her I will go to court and charge her with cheating. And you would rather not put the family through the pain.
2007-03-20 00:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she just met this guy and wants to move away with him-then she's got serious issues. For her sake, rather, for the sake of the kids, try to get her friends/family involved to get her help. Realize your marriage is over. I wouldn't waste my time trying to "fix" the situation. She obviously isn't interested. More importantly, to protect yourself AND the children, get a lawyer. Fast. You have to make it clear that you will not allow her to take the children, and that most likely will involve a judge. Good luck.
2007-03-20 00:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Chris S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go......as the saying goes if you love someone let them go.....etc. DO NOT let her take your kids. what does she really know about this guy? Nothing, only what he says online. I would get a court order to keep your kids in the state, or at least try to. If you serve her and she stll takes the kids you can have her arrested for kidnapping. Lets see if this guy is that important to her to lose her kids and or freedom for......most likely not......I know been there done that, my husband tried the same thing until I asked him is she was worth it......well she wasn't.
2007-03-20 00:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you have huge marriage problems that you should of been awear of before this happened.
Get some counseling asap.
She is so distraught that she is moving to meet a stranger and be with him. This is big trouble. These relationships rarely last.
I would take her to court to get custudy of your kids.
Or fix your marriage. And best make her feel loved , needed and desired.
2007-03-20 00:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that if she wanted to go with someone that she doesnt really know that it is fine but to leave my children behind. And if she feels that she really does know this person she is more than likely making a big mistake.
2007-03-20 00:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by mamaac43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to often. It makes it harder when kids are involved. If I were you I would pray hard. You will receive an answer even if it's not the one you wanted. Good luck.
2007-03-20 00:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm divorce her, or tell her to go but the kids are going to stay with you.. You do now know the person she is taking your kids to live with..
2007-03-20 00:10:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋