My name's Brad and my best friend is Rachel and we're 19. I've known her since we were 6 and have become great friends over the past few years. I've always had a huge crush on her but i'm the shy guy who's happy having a friend instead of pushing a relationship.
About 5 months ago she came out to me and told me (after a few evil guys) that she is a lesbian, or atleast bi.
For the past 3 months now, however, she's been obsessed over some 13 year old girl who screws guys in the library (really) and is just toying with rachel's emotions. No matter what i say, rachel still wont give up on the girl. She knows it's wrong and wants to stop liking her but just cant.
What should I do? I wish i could comfort her more but I cant. Am i evil for wishing we could have something? I'm all confused... after coming out I made it known how i liked her and she said "ya never know", but i really dont know how to take that. We're never alone either- when we're out, many friends come with us.
2007-03-19 17:02:45 · 5 answers · asked by Brad C 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Note, i made a type-o.... the girl she likes is 16, not 13**
2007-03-19 18:15:58 · update #1
Try to help her understand tht it is not her fault tht she feels the way she does...but telll her tht it is not normal for someone of her age to like someone tht much normal..and its against the law!
but really make her understand tht she cant control her feelings but tell her not to let her feelings control her
do u understand?
hope this helps:)
2007-03-19 17:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by BasketballPlayinchica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this a real question? 13yr olds don't have the mental capacity to "toy" with a 19yr olds head, especially a female 19yr old. And its just sick that a 19yr old would want to be with a 13yr old. If this is a real question, she is too messed up right now to be with anyone. As her friend...sit back, listen, be supportive, and for now just stop thinking of being in a relationship with her. If you two got together now it would never last. She needs to clear her head before she will be able to commit to any relationship that is actually going to work.
2007-03-19 17:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by silent*scream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is she interested in a little kid? Dude, it's ok for her to be bi, and you should ween her off of this girl, by expressing yourself, and maybe not being an A$*hole to her like other guys in the past have. Truth is you can get hre if you put effort into it, but if not, you'll get what you put into trying to win her heart.
2007-03-19 17:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by paul86192006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, no matter what sex she preferres, she sounds like a pedofile. I think she needs professional help.
2007-03-19 17:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by Easter Bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard getting over a crush for someone but it can be done
2007-03-19 17:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋