I am 15 and have never had a boyfriend i think there has to be something wrong with me because everybody else has been dating someone or is still dating someone even people that look wayy worst and gurls that are wayy bigger too. And i know 15 isnt that old but for me in my town it is cause every one moves fast. and i know im not ugly and i might be big but im still pretty. so whats wrong with me.
2007-03-19 16:59:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i do flirt with people and im like a everybody person i fit in with the geeks just as well with the preps and i even hang with the gothic people i dont really have a group that i belong to im just me and i think people might think im wierd because of it
2007-03-19 17:14:39 · update #1
Girl! Yeah. You know what? There is NOTHING wrong with you. Trust! I may be caucasian -but I got a big ol booty and wide hips and juicy thighs. I have always been large. When I got to be about 16/17, I started appreciating my curves and stopped worrying about what all the other little caucasian chicks were saying behind my back, cuz when I appreciated my curves and started dressing to accentuate them without dressing skanky(which I tried and I got a bunch of unwanted attention), I got hit on alot by some FINE young men and some older ones, too. Didn't date any of them, but the attention sure feels good!
I actually weighed more than I do now when I met my DBF-who I have been with for 9 years-and he was complaining-COMPLAINING-when I started to drift below 250lbs.(I have lost a LOT of weight since I had our second child last year)
Like I told you to tell your friend, real women have curves! Love you for all you are and hold your head high. KNOW that you are beautiful. Rock the size that you are. If you ever do want to lose weight, do it for the RIGHT reason-cuz you need to get healthier and live longer. Right now, don't worry about not moving as fast. That's a REALLY GOOD thing! You are saving yourself for the RIGHT man who will love you for who you are and love every roll curve and stretch mark because it is on you, not the "right now" boy who will leave you feeling used.
Take care, baby girl. PM me anytime, okay?
2007-03-20 02:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by MamiZorro2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, let me say that there is nothign wrong.
There is nothing wrong!!! A lot of guys, as others have stated below, are interested in girls that are fast and cheap. I never had a date in High School and I went to the prom by myself. I was big back then, even heavier than what I am now but those guys who had all the attractive dates and I saw them when I went to the restroom outside the restrooms talking about getting their dates into bed. I made the choice back in high school to abstain from relationships to focus on my studies.
It's not worth the pain and the emotional torment!!! All it takes is one time to change your life forever and it's not in a positive way. Don't give into peer pressure! Just because everyone else is doing it, doesn't mean you have to. You are a smart and unique individual, don't let anyone tell you any different. Focus on your schoolwork and your studies and I can say that the rewards will be far better if you wait to date. You can have friends but hold off on the dating till later on.
2007-03-19 18:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by dp_reporter_lane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you, you just don't happen to be dating. You self worth isn't defined by whether you are seeing somebody or not. Relax, learn to appreciate how great you are and other people will appreciate it too. Then, when you meet the right person, you'll find you are dating. Don't be tempted to rush into a relationship just for the sake of having a boyfriend as it won't be any fun and it won't make you happy, which is after all, the whole point of dating, especially at your age.
2007-03-19 20:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 03:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, just because others are dating at 15 doesn't mean you have to too. I know someone who didn't have their first boyfriend till they were 21, and i know some people who dated when the were 10. Everyone is different, i started at 16.
2007-03-19 17:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by renygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl u need 2 not worry bcs u dont have a boyfriend bcs at your age boys only want one thing SEX and u should not want 2 give up ur virginity 2 some guyat school bcs thats nothing but a mess( trust me been there done that) i think u should try not 2 think about boys now bcs ur only going 2 lust for that person i think u need 2 find someone u would consider having along time relationship wit.
2007-03-19 19:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by the helper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha please girl, do not sweat it! I was 16 before I kissed a guy! And he was my first boyfriend. Im 18 now, with a wonderful guy and 7 months pregnant with his baby. So I felt the exactly the same way, like I had to be ugly or something. And now I know I am definately not ugly, and Im sure your not either. So, like me, you just have to wait. It sucks, but its worth it I promise.
2007-03-19 17:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by mandiliz06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had a boyfriend, I'm 15, and dont really have a group either. There's nothing wrong with you.
2007-03-19 20:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny life aint always easy. it will be hard, at
times but it always gets better. try hanging
out new places, but dont try as hard as youve
been trying. that will honestly make you look
desprate. you dont need people thinking
that. ii have a little sister your age, and she
has never had that problem but she is going
through other problems with dating. maybe
its better you dont right now. love will find u,
u dont need to find it. well, good luck though.
2007-03-19 17:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's wrong with ya!!Don't rush with the guys!Try to fit in in a group where is the guy u like!!Like u said u can fit in anywhere!!!
2007-03-19 20:40:38 · answer #10 · answered by cool_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋