Would you rather cheat on your spouse and no one ever find out about it or not have cheated and everyone think you did?
2007-03-19 16:30:57 · 17 answers · asked by JLB 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is a hypothetical question. I'm not going to cheat on my husband. I've always said that if I actually get some free time to myself, I'll not be looking for another man to take care of.
I was looking at a game and this was one of the sample questions they gave. I thought that it was interesting.
2007-03-19 16:40:12 · update #1
well i been said to cheated on my wife, but the truth i neve have,, , i can not change people mind, but they the one i dont worried about,, it god in the end i got to answer too, he the one i worried about,, but i love my wife to much to do any thing like that to her,,,,my wife know i one to joke, an i love to have a good laught, but i know where the line is,
2007-03-20 01:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never cheat on your spouse. If you are thinking about it, then you should divorce. If you are being accused, then why? Are you close to cheating? Be careful, your reputation may be at stake. I would rather people think I cheated, because I would know the truth and people will gossip about anyone. It will pass and the next person will be just around the corner to take over the gossip.
2007-03-19 23:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by Shanna h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL if i had to absolutley choose i would pic the latter lol. I would rather not do it and i dont care if everyone thought i did or not as i would know that i did not do it. I would not be able to live with myself if i cheated because i would know i did it even if noone else did BUT God sees all and knows all so it is not really hidden anyways now is it? Be sure your sins will find you out. That is an old saying but very true.
2007-03-19 23:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends... If my husband thought I also cheated then I would have rather done the cheating and never get caught. Its really really hard being blamed for something you didn't do and no way of proving the truth. I hope that neither of them two happens!!
2007-03-19 23:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, in the depth of your own soul you can't lie to yourself. Why worry about the others? The answer is pretty clear then. Cheating is lying no matter how you look at it. Being labled or even condemned is like receiving a crown of a martyr.
2007-03-19 23:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by Cynthia T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definatlly rather not cheat and have people think I did.....I know I love my husband and would never cheat on him. Other people can think what they want about me as long as my husband and I know the truth who cares.
2007-03-19 23:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you talking about hypothetical. There are soooo many women on this forum that recommend this all the time.
So I have found my loophole. I can cheat as long as I keep it a secret.
2007-03-19 23:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one cheating ends most relationships breaks the bonds of trust
2007-03-19 23:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by Dianna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id rather cheat for my own benefit!!! Whats the point in people thinking you do!
2007-03-20 00:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to of cheated and let people think that I did.
I and my husband would always know the truth and to hell with what others think.
I would never cheat.
2007-03-19 23:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋