I am getting married and I am a virgin I am wondering how do you get better at sex. I am scared I am going to be really bad because when I make out I've been told I go to fast so I'm not that good. Please help me
2007-03-19 16:17:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You work on it as a team. You can look up new positions and things online, however thats not the important thing. You have to be open and honest with your partner, find out what he wants, and make sure he knows what you want. It's going to suck the first couple of times and thats ok. Just keep working together and it will keep getting better. Being open lets you work on what each other didnt like, and make it so its the best for both of you. Dont worry too much though, the guy usualy enjoys it no matter what, so just make sure he pleases you! :-) Good luck, and Congrats on getting married. Dont worry, and be open!
Edit:
Whatever you do, dont forget forplay. kissing and massaging and geting into the mood before you go for it. This gets the body ready for it and it will be more enjoyable for the both of you!
2007-03-19 16:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by sasukechaos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch 40 Year Old Virgin or some other bad movie.
2007-03-19 23:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by sunshinee<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woahh
aren't you being a little rushed there?
one: you're being married
you're marrying the one person you love
i really don't think they would CARE if you're going to be bad or not
and two, if he's an honest person and is a virgin too
he wouldn't know how to either
don't worry so much
it'll probably make it worse
[this may not be the best advice cuz im a virgin too]
2007-03-19 23:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lulubell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time probably won't be the best, but after a few times you could ask him if you're good and what to do to improve.. and just the more sex, the more experienced you will be, so probably the better!!
2007-03-20 00:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by *a reason to live* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex comes natural I think. It may be a good idea to learn different positions to see what works best for you guys. But honestly, if you are worried about pleasing your husband... it doesn't take much! For you on the otherhand, it might take a while to discover your preference. Good luck and congratz!!!
2007-03-19 23:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by _hopefull_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get married,tell your husband on your first night you are a virgin=if he is any kind of a decent guy he will go slow with you and you both should enjoy a safe happy sexual experience
2007-03-19 23:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by caffsans 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect. There is no such thing to a man as "bad at making out." They are happy to get whatever comes (no pun intended) their way. Just take it slower and enjoy yourself.
Congratulations on your marriage!
2007-03-19 23:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by JLB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sure your husband will be very willing to 'show you the way'. And you need to tell him your preferences as well. Have a terrific wedding!
2007-03-19 23:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush. just go with the flow. start with kissing, touching, always do forplay. you can also set the mood, soft music, etc. it's just gets better with practice. it's not what just pleases your partner, but pleases you both.
2007-03-19 23:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by jae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch videos, lol, take things slowly and fluently, KNOW what you're doing
2007-03-19 23:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by nikkecola17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋