Both me and my guy are fairly masculine tops but we like eachother so we are making it work we just fool around and do other stu" :O " lol so we really like eachother but ... how does this work who pays for dinner who buys who the valentines gifts see when i dated a fem i trested him like the woman but now it me and another top so where double gay MANLY MAN AGAINST MANLY MAN !!. lol I dont get this relationship who buys who flowers. And can you give me some spicy advice on what we can do in the boom boom room since were both tops.
2007-03-19 16:02:34 · 5 answers · asked by Yoursexy1234 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
TAKE TURNS
2007-03-19 17:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says you can't both do everything? Do you enjoy getting the attention of flowers or candy or other such stuff at Valentines day? If not find something you know he will like (such as automotive accessories I don't know I was looking for an example)
One of the great things about gay relationships is that there is no prescribed roles, you can figure out for yourselves what you like and don't like, and how you will make things work between you.
As for in the bed room, I would suggest role playing, perhaps take turns as to who dominates, and perhaps one of you might find you enjoy being on the bottom for it. Another idea that I have would be you two could wrestle and the loser would be the bottom? Just throwing some ideas out there.
I also hear hot wax when used carefully can be really hot, and perhaps a pair of handcuffs??
I hope these ideas help, and remember there are no defined roles and there doesn't have to be if you don't want there to be defined roles for you two.
2007-03-19 17:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by Lucas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take turns paying for dinner or just go dutch. In terms of the feminine side, you both can do a little bit, but not too overboard. In terms of the bedroom, it should be exciting, but one of you have to make a sacrifice for the other. You can turn it into a poker game even to make it fun.
2007-03-19 16:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all send me a tape of your boom boom time...hehehe
Well i don't think it is so hard to make it work for you both.Do you really both have the need of penetration??Hey it's all in our mind.Making love to someone you really love makes terms like ''top'' and ''bottom'' disappear.Feel the moment
2007-03-20 00:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Bebis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
answers: both, both, both and frottage, oral, and rimming... enjoy!!!
2007-03-19 16:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋