Of Life & Love: A dilemma for the Mind & Senses -- How would you choose? (Q #2)?

Question

Which do you find more uncomfortable -- being rejected or telling another man/woman you're not interested in seeing him/her again?

(Question open to all... all that is asked of you, is to be respectful to others. Thank you. [peace])

Answer 1

I hate being the one doing the rejecting, cause I don't like to hurt others. It sucks to be rejected, and because I know that, I don't want to be the cause of any one else having those feelings.

Answer 2

Being rejected is pretty uncomfortable. Because I am constantly telling guys/girls everyday I'm not interested. Kinda turns in a habit I guess?

Answer 3

I am more comfortable with telling them that I am not interested.

When I get rejected, I have the sick frame of mind that makes me even more attracted to them then. Rejection is truly the greatest aphrodisiac to me.

Answer 4

Yuck on both of them, but all things being equal, I'd rather do the rejecting. Consider it a control thing. However, often it's a mutually reached conclusion, not one that either one didn't see coming.

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Answer 5

i might somewhat no longer be in a courting than % between those 2 issues. i desire the two emotional fidelity AND sexual monogamy. how are you able to've emotional fidelity without sexual monogamy, on the grounds that to have intercourse with somebody different than me might for sure harm me, they bypass hand in hand. it may be greater effective to me to easily be on my own. i think of I merely responded my own (previous) question.

Answer 6

I really have to think about this one....I guess rejecting someone else would be harder.