I have made changes to the point where I am physically healthier and higher self-esteemier. (Yes, I know it isn't LOL)
Would you give a guy a chance that wouldn't give you the time of day before?
Also (not to sound superficial) guys I am more attracted to are giving me attention. Although I did not know them before, would it be the same situation if you know they probably would not have hit on you the year previous?
2007-03-19 15:43:29 · 7 answers · asked by The Gay Argentian Seal 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My question is based solely on sexual attraction, not relationship material. I have no interest in that so I do not get axed because of not wanting a relationship right now LOL
2007-03-19 15:45:03 · update #1
I believe everyone deserves a second chance, but I think they owe some explanation. You have to put yourself into their shoes as well.
They more than likely would not have because they like the way you look now and now is all that they are worried about since this is sexually motivated and not relationship based.
2007-03-19 15:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by Michael B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on if I was still attracted to him or not. Plus I have extremely high standards and criteria...a guy needs to be learning French(unless he is already fluent in the language), he must sing or play an instrument and if he expects me to go out with him again he'd better not ask for a specific date/time/location. I like spontinatety.
2007-03-19 22:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you were overweight or scrawny before and you're slim or cut now, of course they'd give you more attention than they did before. high self-confidence is also pretty universally attractive, or rather, it's pretty unattractive when a person has none. so yea the phenomenon you're describing is totally plausible I'd say.
2007-03-19 23:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by lordwashu13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, whats the poin t of all that hard work if you can't use it to step up to a higher level of man (physically) the question is, when will you start working on what's inside to find happiness when the well runs dry?
2007-03-19 23:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why treat them any better than they treated you. I'd move on to someone else
2007-03-20 00:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them a chance? --did your ego grow as well?
2007-03-19 22:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah, why bother. bigger and better fish out there.
2007-03-19 22:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Roxy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋