I find myself constantly love the wrong one, they are either not trustworthy or they gave me drama, but Im always attracted to the dangerous situation and have an intense feeling about them.
There are some very nice people who love me, but I cant feel the passion for them, bcos they are too nice, and even when being with them, Im not happy, I cant feel any challenge or intense feeling.
Whats wrong with me? I find some of my friends are very intersted in the good ones and can happily marry them, why couldnt I?
2007-03-19 15:22:26 · 14 answers · asked by jing j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Seems like you are in it for the thrill, and even though you know where it will lead, you are addicted to that feeling of lust.
Sometimes passion and desire can build from a trusting relationship. My advice is go for someone who loves you and respects you that you like and see what happens in the intimacy side...
I initially wasn't sexually attracted to my partner, but he is an awesome guy, and it built from there...now we have the greatest time in bed out of anyone i have ever been with!
2007-03-19 15:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by fitMel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just like to have drama in their lives. Some people need to feel the "challenge" of fixing a broken person. Perhaps it's a little of each. Could it be that you find your life boring, and feel the need for the excitement of the screwed up relationships? I'd recommend seeing a therapist- he/she might help you get to the root cause of it.
2007-03-19 18:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by Chris S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you are not looking for the safe way. some people meet those safe type, the ones that have it all but no "Zing" to them. We can't help who are hearts connect with, so don't get to down about it. Just remember that you have to kiss a lot of frogs in order to find your prince charming. Better get those lips puckered and enjoy the ride.
2007-03-19 15:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by latinalove172003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause like they say
Opposites Attract
People tend to be attracted to quite the opposite
And once you get into that pattern of choosing the wrong ones all the time
It will always happen
Until one fine day when you are wiser and more mature you will get to find the ONE who you are attracted to and it wont be the wrong one
Good luck!!!
2007-03-19 15:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by boonoora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK,OK so it's you again!! Are you serious?
You are a real drama queen! Yes,go for the bad boys, they will certainly love you!! You deserve each other.As if you are going to care what people think.
Just leave the nice guys for us. Thank you!
2007-03-19 18:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by Montana Skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are afraid some one might just love you if you just let them in ,see your beautiful side, you choose these wrong men because deep down inside you know they will go away, that way you dont get hurt and can blame others for your unhappiness.how are you parents are they happily married?
2007-03-19 15:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by Adrian Ramos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident, the guts could comprise love in simple terms. For God the Savior Jesus, and our fellow guy. yet there are quite few hearts that like to the ultimate, as satisfaction, envy, coveting,lust, and downright hate fills the guts and squashes love in a good little nook of the guts.
2016-12-19 09:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by clumm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING is wrong with you! Its human nature to want what you can't have. Everyone is like that, even if you're not trying to be.. thats just how people are. Its not you.. But try not to be so available.. [[I'm currently trying to do the same ha]] Its easier said than done, but in the end it really pays off. Good luck.
2007-03-19 15:26:43 · answer #8 · answered by BeachGrl1985 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A couple of reasons maybe as you've stated....You dont find them 'exciting' enuf...The other may be that you dont feel entitled to someone so worthy. Just an opinion.........
2007-03-19 15:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u want what isn't that easy to get, u like excitement, drama, may have something to do with your childhood, if there was alot of drama with your parents, u just feel like that's normal.
2007-03-19 15:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋