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I Hate myself???? why do I hate myself

2007-03-19 15:08:13 · 14 answers · asked by Madison T 1 in Social Science Psychology

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well , I HAVE SAID THAT TO MY SELF BEFORE TOO.you know don't think we really hate are self's it is just when things in are life gets really hard we say that cause we just don't really know how to handle the things that are rotten in are life at the time.sorry your feeling bad.you really don't hate your self you hate the way you feel.God loves you.

2007-03-19 15:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by deedee 4 · 0 0

The next question is: "What can I do to stop hating myself?" The answer is to make change yourself into someone who performs services that benefit others, like helping Meals on Wheels, or writing letters for Amnesty International, in support of prisoners of conscience, or one of the hundreds of other worthwhile causes or charitable institutions. When others come to value your contribution; your self esteem will increase markedly, and then you can start thinking of yourself in different terms. Practice for 20 mins daily the method at http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com Meditation room; try it out; mantra meditation; repeat: "easy". Tai Chi & yoga suits some. There should be a noticeable improvement in several weeks, possibly sooner. Eat healthily and exercise daily. Keep occupied, and when you notice the negative inner voice telling you such things as: "I hate myself.", immediately and forcefully say to yourself (aloud if appropriate): "I know this tactic; GO AWAY FOR A WHILE!!!" You might want to use: "ruse, game, ploy, trick, or scam", instead of: "tactic".

2007-03-19 22:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by CLICKHEREx 5 · 0 0

Try to find good things about yourself and focus on them. Stop paying attention to the things you don't like about yourself. Remember, that everyone has ups and downs and nobody's life is perfect. Right now you're down. Go, take a shower, blow dry your hair, and then put on some clean clothes. You'll feel a whole lot better.

p.s. it always helps to sit down and write a plan on how you're going to make your life better. Good Luck :-)

2007-03-19 22:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by smazedmi 3 · 0 0

If you don't know how do we know.

Well, maybe you are not being TRUE to yourself. Stop being shallow and fake. Be yourself, and stop those nasty mean tapes your playing in your head every day. Those things others have put up there, people who have made you feel less than them. You should be your own best friend.

2007-03-19 22:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You need to find your good qualities and draw on those qualities. Be happy about those. Don't tell me you don't have any. If you think you don't, you need to find what they are because everyone has them. If you don't like your personality, you can change that, find what you want to be like and make small changes every day. Write down what you want to be like and start working towards that.

2007-03-19 22:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by elimayme 3 · 0 0

Because your looking at all the things that arent your best quatlities.Start looking at the things that you do good and all the things that make you unique.God loves you,you need to love yourself!I wuva you too. :)

2007-03-19 22:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

because you WANT to hate yourself

2007-03-19 22:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by N 4 · 0 0

Because you're mad at yourself? Give yourself a break for a change.

2007-03-19 22:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 0 0

Because things around you are making you fustrated !

Don't let it get to you .

2007-03-19 22:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Love yourself and others will love you too.

2007-03-19 22:11:30 · answer #10 · answered by JOURNEY 5 · 0 0

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