im been going to this prep school scince 6th grade and noew im in 7th i still have no friends everybody makes funof me . my house got te-peed on my birthday. now parents know ima loser. people are making prank calls to my house about them being the grudge and their trying to kill me and calling me names and hanging up today in school i just bursted out crying of thought of my house.
please help
2007-03-19 14:44:38 · 11 answers · asked by Gloomy Princesess 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
does cutting ur self really help???
2007-03-19 14:48:42 · update #1
everytime im about to get revenge on them my face gets hot and i stop
2007-03-19 15:02:20 · update #2
i kinda know how i u feel, i go to a prep school as well. in sixth grade i had like no friends...and until about the second semester in seventh i didnt. just um...talk to a guidence counsler and try to be more social..and liek um...liek if there are things that you could change like maybe ur look? or um...take intrest in different types of things or um..you could try after school acttivities. i hope life gets better.
2007-03-19 14:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww, this kind of stuff breaks my heart and makes me want to put those bullies in their place. I know it's really hard to do this, but try to stay focused on your goals and what you want to do with your life. Just think......in a few years when you're a doctor or whatever you want to be, they're going to be flipping burgers. People like that have no life and are very unhappy with themselves and probably have an unhappy family life.
Things WILL get better....people like that, when they get done with one person, they'll move on to another victim. Hang in there!!
PS: Your parents do NOT think you're a "loser"!!! Maybe they could give you some advice on how to handle this. Sometimes parents aren't as dumb as we think they are!
2007-03-19 15:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh kiddo, your parents dont care what other kids think of you. They know what a good, smart, funny and special person you are. And even if the other kids dont see that, sooner or later somebody will. You need to tell your parents whats going on so they can help. I wish there was something I could do to help you. Take care and good luck.
2007-03-19 14:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by binglejells2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This qualifies for....
Vandalism - Basically, toilet paper on your house is vandalism. Call the cops and report it.
Bullying - Yes, quite. Tell someone else you trust, like a teacher.
I am in your situation (well, was, for about three years), and I kept doing the right thing.
2007-03-19 14:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by Sean 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow kids are so mean. however, those mean kids dont have anything better to do and you must be more interesting if you are all they focus on. right? its true. there must be something about you that they are curious about, there must be something different about you. so instead of asking you they are just mean to you. i would just talk to them, dont be shy, just tell them all about yourself. force yourself on them and make jokes about yourself. you will love this story.....i was just like you in school. i am 29 now. so just this last saturday we went out with some friends and they brought friends and one of them happened to be a girl that was mean to me and "better than me" in 7th grade. i have not seen her since 7th grade. it was awkward. so i tried to talk to her and she snubbed me and ignored me. i tried and tried and tried and finally i was getting mad that she never grew up. so i started just asking her questions. how many kids do you have? where do you live now? what do you do for a living? etc. turns out she is a waitress (never went to college) and i went to college and am the parts manager at a car dealership. she finally warmed up to me but it just goes to show. good luck kiddo. i feel for ya, cuz ive been there. just dont be shy. if i could go back in time now, knowing what i know, i would just include and invite myself to be with those stupid people.
2007-03-19 14:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I did know how to help you, my heart is breaking right now for you. I never had to deal with any of this when I was in school. I got along with everyone. I was never bullied and didn't bully anyone. Just be as strong as you can be and know you have a good heart. I know that doesn't help much and I am sorry.
ADDED: NO,NO,NO, DO NOT START CUTTING YOURSELF. IT WILL NOT MAKE THINGS BETTER. PLEASE DON"T!!! Talk to your parents please, talk to them.
2007-03-19 14:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by mom of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let those jerks get you down. I know it's hard to be the center of that kind of abuse, but if they know it doesn't bother you they'll give up. It's only fun for them if they know they're hurting you.
And remember, people like that are usually really insecure about themselves!
2007-03-19 14:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude we the same and i swear it
but now i am in 8th going to 9th
find some1 who has the same interests like the same tv shows
don't let em get u down
those who make fun of u have no self-esteem
2007-03-19 15:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some style a haircut new shoes new look and new atitude and let everyone know hey you can call me a nerd but ill kick yo but
2007-03-19 14:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by weezy f. baby Young money 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no cutting does not help...Ask your parents if you could transfer to another school.
2007-03-19 15:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋