My husband put me in an awful situation. I was recovering from a total breakdown.A bulb needed replacing on car,he told me to go to workshop & he would do it.He sat in the boot of car & I stood to one side. He couldnt find how to get cover off compartment, then turned as a work collegue was going past, he called to her,all silly & soppy, asking her if she knew how to do it. She promptly turned,came and pushed between us, bending over, her nose almost touching his, & looking into his eyes,grinning. He never flinched,didnt move back at all!! I felt uncomfortable they stayed like that while she fiddled 'behind her' to undo the compartment where bulbs were. She then stood up,turned around,' thrust her face in mine' & said "See it takes a woman to do it" walked off, but kept coyly looking back over her shoulder wiggling her backside!! He stood watching! Then said that he should check engine. Opened bonnet, & fiddled but kept peeping over bonnet in direction she had gone.He says he didnt!!!!
2007-03-19 14:39:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know it shoud be do! changed my mind about the question header, and didnt delete all I should have. Sorry!
2007-03-19 15:09:14 · update #1
Prior to this incident, I hadnt minded my hubby splitting logs & getting wood for her, and even offered support myself as her hubby had left her! I had known her before she came to work at farm. The first time I managed to leave the home due to panic attacks etc., she started talking to me( she is ex physiciatric nurse) while talking to her I became very upset,& started crying, she walked off. Then as my hubby came towards me she blocked his way, & he just stood talking to her! He looked across once, but just stood chatting to her, &left me standing there. I eventually got in car & drove home, to an empty home. Im sure he could see how upset I was. I shouldnt have expected anything else I guess. He had seen me the night I had breakdown.Apparently my son told me when I was screaming and crying. Hubby just sat watching me. Then would go to him saying " I dont know what to do" I know my worth now dont I !!!!!
2007-03-19 15:21:42 · update #2
THANK YOU EVERYONE!!!!!! I really thought I was going mad! Also I was wondering if I was imagining it all as he said. Like the fact he started changing his habits after 32 yrs! It is so hurtful after giving up everything, and all my friends for him, & being here as he didnt like me being out when he came home. THANK YOU ALL AGAIN!!!!
2007-03-19 15:26:51 · update #3
I have tried talking. He wont listen, he just glares at me. I got him to sit down one day, and said we needed to talk it out, and not get angry & start throwing sh** at each other. I wanted to explain how the things he had done and said had made me think he was after her. He wouldnt listen, he just told me I should go back on the medication. Yea, then I just sit there staring into space, and more reason for him to go craving attention at work from his hareem! I am taking on board all the things you have all said, and will do something about it. Thank you all
2007-03-20 05:18:16 · update #4
No way would i be puttin up with so much disrespect! firstly i would of made sure that ***** knew who she was messin with i'd make sure she couldn't wiggle her fat *** no more!! then the hubby would of got a kick in the balls!! kick him out he has no respect for u whats so ever ..he choose to talk to that **** over u while u were upset...i bet he's loving that he's getting away with being a prick! if my boyfriend done anything like that he knows i'd chop his manhood off!! please leave him u will be happier by urself and will find someone who adores u and respects u! Good luck!!
2007-03-19 22:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets face it.. all men have a soft spot for a feisty woman.. you arnt gna get away from that situation.. but, in a healthy relationship the husband would at least try to make his wife feel special by either not looking at the woman, or by reassuring her in some way (touching your hand or something at least)!
He sounds like a complete idiot to be honest..
Is your relationship okay? If you really love your husband then I think it needs some work.. I think that hassling him about this could make matters worse and you should seek out the heart of your problems, rather than dealing with the symptoms.
Good luck
2007-03-19 22:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by Creative 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow HES LOST RESPECT FOR YOU HONEY! he so does not deserve you!
if talking to him aint enough then stop talking to him about it its prob just getting you more upset! i would probs be as upset as you about this! but like an idiot i would let my bf away with it, but she was a cow about it and thats what i would not stand if i was you!
play him at his own game give him the cold shoulder! or make yourself more interesting but unavailable to him! make little changes that hel notice, buit when he pays you attention say your busy, until it gets to the point where hes frustrated cause he wants you and you aint letting him have you! this will take that distraction and wondering eye away! this is not a permanent solution to your husbands wondering eye but it will boost your confidence and get him looking in your direction!
good luck honey!
2007-03-19 22:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by SWANNY AND SNUGGLES! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce him and get a life of your own, you don't need his silliness and manipulation. as you say, you've just got over a break down so you probably need to be a bit tougher and think about yourself. Develop some self preservation coping skills. Start this by leaving all this behind and move on.
I wouldn't be pissed. I'd be glad to get rid of this silly boy and his nonsense out of my life.
2007-03-19 21:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your probably a lot more cool headed than I am. I think I would of slammed their heads together. Men are Men but this is a bit much. Try talking to him. See why he's acting so stupid. Sluts are everywhere. Good Luck
2007-03-19 22:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought this only happen in the movies. Did this really happen. If it did why did you not intervened by pushing her out of the way and grab your dumb husband by the collar and let him know that you are the boss. Are you guys in the foothills of Tennessee?
2007-03-19 21:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by ewf20612 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pool girl,just leave him, the only way to solve this prob is that. Your hubby should respect you and you too. Nothing to say, just leave this silly hubby.
2007-03-19 22:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I would have slapped her, then turned right round and slapped him too!!!!!!
2 really good ***** slaps.....
Sorry girl dog slaps!!!!!!!!! thats really annoying after putting up with that pr**k all night
2007-03-19 22:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by Spike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dang, thats messed up. You should be really pissed. Try to get to the bottom of it. If not, take drastic measures.
2007-03-19 21:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by Raistlin H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are stupid, leave him !! oh and the correct grammar is Do they think I'm stupid? Something going on?
2007-03-19 21:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by Serious Dude 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋