2007-03-19 14:38:56 · 16 answers · asked by dhurst42064 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Gay men are like friend who they can talk to and be attracted to w/out being lesbian. all fantasy.
2007-03-19 14:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by Dann 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, that would, per definition, make him less than 100 % gay. Of course he could still be MOSTLY gay, and it might be possible that you're the only woman he has ever felt this way about. But then he would not *be completely* gay, obviously, considering how the very definition of the word "gay" is being attracted to one's own sex EXCLUSIVELY. (With extra emphasis on that last word.) Anyway: I have no idea what exactly this guy feels or does not feel for you. Mind-reading sure isn't my area of expertise. Maybe you should ask him about it? And anyway: if you don't have any feelings for him, this probably isn't worth pursuing, regardless. Especially not if he's also married, to top it all off. But IF you are head over heels in love with him, then oh well.. It's YOUR call to make, not mine. And remember that sexuality is a LOT more than just gay, bi or straight. There are all sorts of other categories too, as well as in-between gray zones. And his sexual orientation very well *might* be in one of those. And you very well *might* be an exception. Or you could just be reading his signals completely wrong. There's that option too.
2016-03-16 23:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if this is a legimiate question to ask. Somewhat I have realised in my younger years, that I was attracted to gay men. However, there is no explaination for that. Otherwise, than somehow some of these gay guy's mirroring the type of partner you want to have as a life time partner. However, this alway's never works out. Gay men will alway's be gay men. I had several gay men, good looking once in my friends circle. But it was more of a plantonic friendship than a sexual friendship. So much for my experience.
As for missies answer , is the most stupiest one I have ever heard of.
2007-03-19 14:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by angelikabertrand64 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, and please excuse me if you aren't a native English speaker, but it's "Why DO straight women fall in love with gay men", and they typically don't.
Many women find that they enjoy the company of gay men because they might find that they can relate to gay men better than straight men. Gay men are typically more in touch with their emotions and less afraid of them. It may be stereotypical, but many gay men seem to care more about their apperance and behavior than straight men.
Women might wish that they could have a relationship with a man who has the qualities of a gay man, but they necessarily wish to fall in love with a straigh man; a gay man simply isn't interested, and a relationship of love simply can't happen (unless the gay man is trying like heck to live a straight life, and these relationships don't last very long).
You can't change a gay man to straight, nor can you change a lesbian to a straight woman, and very many straight men fantasize about relations with lesbian women.
2007-03-20 01:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by Deirdre H 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everything that's already been said, plus, these women are often women who have intimacy issues, preventing them from longing after men who may realisitcally return their feelings and move to become intimate. If the gay man a woman was pining for ever seriously turned to her, took her hand, looked her in the eye, and said "For you, I can be hetero. Let's fall in love/move in together/get naked", the woman's safe-haven love fantasy would be rattled and she would probably not accept that offer. Women don't -really- fall in love with gay men, they tend to develop these sort of confused feelings that some of them misinterpret, that's all.
2007-03-19 15:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by lordwashu13 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't say we fall in love with gay men. It's more like were very attracted to them. This is because they take great care of themselves and most of them are very good looking. I dont find girly gay guys attractive.
2007-03-19 15:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because they like the challenge. Knowing that he's gay and has no interest in her. And they think they can turn him straight.
2007-03-19 14:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
straight women and gay men have lots in common...
2007-03-19 14:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by miokti 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if they fall in love with them. They can relate more to them because they are more open with their feelings.
2007-03-19 14:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by Tony S 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because they both share the same feminine spirit and that is a bond in it self
2007-03-19 14:46:32 · answer #10 · answered by dadaanru 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋