Ok so imbarassed for asking but here i go... Im 23 just had sex for the first time last week and I'm not sure if i have had an orgasm or not. I get an urge to pee n i stop myself but i'm not sure. PLease help it's driving me insane. N i read that some women aren't able to have them any clue why?
2007-03-19 14:30:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Don't worry.
It is a normal feeling for many women. The lucky women known when and orgasm is coming, but the unlucky women confuse it with the 'pee feeling' and stop, thus keeping themselves from having an orgasm.
Not too long ago women didn't have any places to go and get advice.
Remember, the 'pee feeling' is actually the 'orgasm-feeling'. You may release a bit of fluid, but this isn't pee. More likely than not you will just have a really good orgasm. But you first need to let go, allow the feeling to envelope you.
If you are afraid to do this while having sex, you can try it by yourself in the bath-tub or shower, just so that you will know what will happen and what it feels like. When you are in the shower, their is no need to worry about accidentally peeing.
Good luck. Women who feel like you do often end up having the best orgasms.
2007-03-19 18:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by quizzical 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A very intense feeling. You'll know when it happens. It's different for everyone but most people seem to describe it as a build up of tension then a sudden gratifying release. Sometimes there may be fluid with it, it won't be urine but you may feel like you have to pee.
Just relax and if that sensation comes when you having intercourse, oral or just on your own, just keep going and let your body do want it needs too.
Try just pleasuring yourself to learn what you like then you'll be better able to tell your partner so that they can bring you to orgasm.
2007-03-19 14:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by Rayvin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to get some good infromation from a good source, if this is not a joke question...... get a book on human sexuality- there should be good descriptions of the phases of orgasm, and, peeing is not one of them... Some , many, women are not able to have an orgasm without additional stimulation. if you havent had one alone, maybe you should start there so you know what to do. inform yourself before you waste years not enjoying yourself. GL
2007-03-19 14:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by red_rose_rancher 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi Layla,
if you have an orgasm there will be no doubt in your mind as to what is happening to you. OMG it is the most wonderful feeling in the whole wide world.......i mean your whole body is in ecstacy.....writhing and feeling like you've never felt before.
and with some women it doesn't just happen. you have to be in tune with your body and know how to use it. alot of an orgasm is in your mind, too. i'm embarrasing myself so i am going to sign off now.......but remember, practise makes perfect. !!!!!!!! Good luck p.s.= some women ejaculate while orgasming. and it is not pee. it is female ejaculation.
i've gotten pretty good at making my body work for me and yes, i am a female ejaculator and have learned over the years to be able to c*um multiple times mmmmmm hurts soooo good.
2007-03-19 14:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by sweetness #1 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if your not sure then you didnt have one. Its a complete rush all over your body! Best feeling in the world! Its just the beginning for you so you'll get there. Just stay focused and keep your eye on the prize!!!
2007-03-19 14:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by flea333244 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damm dude that's crazy!
well yes the first time you do feel like pissing but just let it flow, then later on try to pushed out and it will feel better.
OK NEXT!
2007-03-19 14:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by hardass no.13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha haaaaaaaaa! This just made my bloody day.
2007-03-19 14:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope srry
2007-03-19 14:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋