ok i'm 12 and i have a girlfriend but i dont know i think she is losing interest in me. What should i do?
2007-03-19 14:20:18 · 10 answers · asked by blsk8er2 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Okay first of all you are 12 which means you are in six or seventh grade. Honey you haven't even gotten to high school yet. There are more like this girl in the future. If she is not interested in you then so be it. Don't change yourself for a girl that you like or love. If you have to change yourself than you are bound to fail with the relationship. You won't be happy in the end. Also don't do anything stupid to impress her because in the end you will only get into trouble and you will have lost all the way around. No girl is worth changing yourself or doing something you wouldn't have done before knowing her or for her. You have many years to learn about girls so don't rush yourself now. If she doesn't like you as much as she used to maybe sometime in the next six years she'll like you more again. Don't worry everything happens for a reason. Be happy you're young and you have your whole life ahead of you!!!!!!
2007-03-19 15:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by Deanna M9903 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well, if she's losing interest in you, then, well, she's losing interest in you. Don't sweat it too much...I remember in middle school, those kind of relationships never lasted, but were fun while they did. You can try to hold on a bit longer, if she means a lot to you, but if you see a break-up coming, and know it's coming, maybe you should try talking to her, and break up. Dump is such a harsh word. =P Don't worry too much, unless you already know she is the one you want to marry...which is a little extreme...but yeah. Don't worry there are more fish in the sea, and who knows, maybe the problem will fix itself. Just don't go changing who you are to get her interested again...that's called not being honest with yourself, and you're the worst person you can ever lie to. I learned that in grade 2. =) Good luck, though.
2007-03-20 19:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you dont do is what "maddie" says. you should only get sexually active if your in love with that person, and i think 12 is to young to be in love or to be having sex. so take her to a movie, dinner, have her over to your house for dinner with your family. talk to her, make her laugh, hold her hand, go to school dances with her, eat lunch with her, call her, buy her a flower, or write her a sweet note.
2007-03-19 22:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only 12 so theres not much to do but what you can do is spark your relationships take her on a cute date and kiss her. tell her how much you really like her and even though you are so young you really like her.
2007-03-19 21:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by anon 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pay some extra attention to her.. be fun and make her laugh
dont be too clingy tho
u don't have to buy her naything.. cuz thas just buying her off which isnt cool and i doubt it would work
2007-03-19 21:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by jersey_689 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok..so pay mor attention to her...like take her to a movie or give her somting special to let her know you care. and talk to her..let her know how you feel. girls love guys who show their feelings.
2007-03-19 21:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by I♥RD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with with jersy_6. you could try talking to her about how you feel. talking in a relationship is the number one key.
2007-03-19 21:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by Traveling girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe possibly get sexual active or make out. She'll be so much more interested!
2007-03-19 21:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by miss cutie 4 eva 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
make it look like you are more intrested in her by pretending you are listing to more of her talk.
2007-03-19 22:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another girlfriend. that is what kids your age are supposed to be doing!
don't dwell on it. just get another one.
2007-03-19 21:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋