How to I help a friend with her problem if she wont tell me. I am the kind of person that most everyone will talk to about their problems, but my one wont allow me to help. What can I do to get her to trust me enough to tell me?
2007-03-19 14:18:40 · 7 answers · asked by I am Noodles! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just let her know u are there...even if u have already told her..she just needs to here it even if she doens't want 2 here it...i know wut i am saying is confusing..i am even cunfusing myself..lol...i am going thru the same thing....i have this guy friend...and he is trying 2 find out wut is wrong with me...i trust him...but i don't know how he would react to wut it is...and she probably does trust u..but maybe she doesn't want u 2 worrie anymore than u are worring...and she will come around..trust me...i have been thru it before..and i am going thru it again...
i hope she ends up talking to u!!...god bless!
2007-03-19 14:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by alisha_anne2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not comfortable to tell you her problems then let her be. She could have wanted more quiet time to figure it herself. Yes, you can offer help but don't force it on her. It must be a voluntary action. So if she doesn't want to tell you don't force it.
2007-03-19 21:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kind of leave her with something to think about like, "Whenever you need somone to talk to, I'm right here." Give her some reassurance, which applies to anything in general.
2007-03-19 21:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by miss pochacco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it. if something bad happens to her, theres prolly nothing u can do to help her anyways. u cant help someone that doesnt want to be helped. she needs to fall flat on her face, and when she does, u can stand there laughing at her, or u can help her up. if ur there for her when she needs it at the worst time, that would strengthen ur friendship. until then, all u can do is watch her suffer.
2007-03-19 21:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by waterlily750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
2007-03-19 21:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by MY CHEM♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yea other people come to you. But maybe she doesn't want to share this one with you.
Just give her some space. you never know it might help. and her problem could be about you??
2007-03-19 21:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by Asian BarbieTM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she dosnt trust u
2007-03-19 21:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋