my life is falling apart?

Question

whats wrong with me. every thing to day seems to go wrong, i didn't get my # in soccer, i know its not a real big deal but i really wanted my #. i didn't get elected on my school ffa team, and i couldn't log onto my other website thingy. on top of that the guy i like keeps going out with other girls, im half way losing a good friend, my grades are dropping. i don't know what to do. whats wrong with me that i couldn't get elected, i have been for the last 2 years. why is my life falling apart. i don't know who to talk to or turn to for help. and i prayed to god for help with the election but i didn't make it, i hate him now. whats going on with my life?

Answer 1

stop stressin ur self thats y u think that ur life is fallin apart!!!


take urself up and put it all back together, good start let GOD help u and let his will b done,

now that u think ur at the bottom only one place to go and that's UP!!!!

Answer 2

Hun i know things seem hard right now but believe me when I say this every body goes through it. Just take a deep breath and let it all out. Keep a journal to let out your emotions. Things will start getting better I promise they always do. I didn't always get my number in sports, it's got nothing to do with you its just the luck of the draw ya know? Don't let little things like that upset you too much. About the election thing you were talking about maybe it was just someone else's turn this time you don't always have to win everything the other person prob just got lucky. The internet is always screwed up once in a while its no biggy, I know it sucks though especially if your having a bad day, just check it tomarrow. Does the guy you like know you like him? If not tell him, maybe flirt with him a little bit and I'm sure he'll wander your way. Tell your friend how you feel, that you feel like your losing her, and it's the last thing you want especially right now. Have a slumber party with them and just catch up on old times, that always seemed to help me out with friends or a really good idea take a shopping trip together thats always fun and its a good way to get away from things for a while! Good luck!

Answer 3

LOL wow that was funny and pathetic
"i prayed to God for help with the election...i didnt make it....i hate him now"
first thing u have to realize is that God cannot give what everyone wants.....you should watch the movie Bruce Almighty ....starring Jim Carey....to understand why
second thing u have to understand that LIFE is filled with ups and downs....one second ur as happy as can be, everything is going ur way and life can't get any better, and then when u wake up tomorrow a million things can go wrong, and u "feel like ur life's falling apart".
Clearly it isnt....unless ur "Life" consists of one bad day or one bad week.
For most people LIFE is 2459283392838 days long or 1938283 weeks long. One bad day or one bad week is so insignificant that a month later, ull totally forget u asked this and ur life will be back on track.

Answer 4

By listening to you whine on and on, I would say that a good dose of humility is going to do you some good, if you learn from it.
I mean, just listen to you. Me, me, me, me. Get over yourself ! Instead of being glad that you were elected for 2 years, when there are kids that will not EVER get elected, you whine because it wasn't three. Be happy that you had it twice.
Your guy ? Don't sound to me like he is yours. If he keeps dating other girls, then move on. There are others. Or let me guess, he is one of the best looking guys in school, right? If so, you are shallow as well as stuck on yourself. You NEED humility. It might bring you down to where you belong.

If your grades are dropping, then you are worrying about everything else besides your work. Grow up, and face your responsibilities.

God does not answer prayers when they only serve our own selfish wants. When thou prayest, pray that God's will be done. Then when a prayer is not answered in the way that you want, you will know that it was not in the will of God for that to happen. Then you say that you hate God for you not getting what you want? What a horrible and hurtful thing to say about God. He sent his only son, Jesus to suffer crucifixion for you. For you.

Yes, I think that learning through humility is a good thing. You will either turn out a better person, if you think about it in the right way. Or you will become even worse than you are now. That is your choice.
Grow up. Your life is not falling apart. You are being given an opportunity to grow. To overcome. Deal with it. Learn from it. Be better for it.

Answer 5

Things will always go wrong in someones life. It is apart of life. Trust me things happen to me all the time like that and i can't help it. You are probably just have a bad day/week. I am very athletic myself, and i play softball, and there has been times when i miss the ball or I do really bad sometimes. There are just days like that. And I do like someone who keeps going out with other people too. just because they dont fall for you doesnt mean that no one will. Dont worry your day will come when you realize your life is not falling apart it is making a new beging. And dont hate god just because something bad goes wrong. I pray all the time and sometimes it doesnt happen. Just keep beliveing you can do it and Hope that everything will fall in place.

Answer 6

It does sound like a bad week.

First, let me say that blaming God for things not going your way is wrong. God gave humankind free will. Those who didn't vote for you exercised that free will and chose someone else.

Being a teenager is the hardest thing on earth. So many things are happening in your life that it's hard to deal with the daily ups and downs.

Step back and take a deep breath. Start by studying and getting your grades back where they belong.

Continue to participate in ffa and practice your soccer.

Soon life will begin to look rosier. Hang in there.

Answer 7

It may seem as though your life is falling apart today. At times, things do not go our way and very often not totally due to our fault. You may feel terrible about today but think of it as a learning experience. What lesson have you learned from each of these incidents(not really failures). This will make you a stronger person and able to cope with, solve and meet greater challenges. Chalk it up to experience and use what you have learned for the next challenge in life. There is nothing wrong with you.

Answer 8

Try to improve your attitude. Everything happens for a reason, I have found this to be true. Do what you can to deal with the things that are within your control, like your grades and your friendship. Try to look at your life from a different viewpoint and it may not seem so bad. Hang in there--try out for something different. Don't feel sorry for yourself, and don't depend on god to give you what you want. YOU have to make things happen; and YOU have to improve your attitude and you will see how much better your life becomes. Be patient.

Answer 9

Maybe just a bit too dramatic. If you believe in God, you should also believe that he cant answer every prayer you make. Especially over a school election. If you "hate" him maybe you need to look over your religious beliefs, because they're defiantly not strong enough. I don't believe, but I don't hate him. Can you really hate god? Just take a deep breath and realize everything is just petty. You've got your life, and thats what really matters.

If you ever need to talk though, my AIM is krizzmiss, I'm always on.

Answer 10

Hey hun, trust your life isn't falling apart you just have to remember that people have it a lot worse then you. it my not feel like that right now, but in a year or 2 you will look back at this and release that its not as bad as you think it is. To fix your grades just do all your homework and you will do fine. With everything else just deal with one thing at a time dont deal with it all at once and it will make your life easier.

Answer 11

Honey, everybody faces times like these. Remember, this too shall pass, and life will get better in time. I guarantee it. It sounds like you're just depressed right now. Take yourself out, treat yourself to icecream or something, and remember, these things aren't your fault. They happen to everybody.

Don't hate God for allowing free will, thereby allowing a fallen world where things don't always work out. If you're gonna believe in Him at all, you've got to remember that He didn't originally intend a fallen world, and He does have plans to fix it. They just aren't ready yet.
If He's at fault for allowing someone else to be elected not you, what about them? Maybe they prayed to be elected too.